i've just started a relationship with this girl.. round 2 months and we haven't kissed at all, she was the serious type and i just don't know how to work my way too her lips! help!!!
[oh.. for the record, im her 1st boyfriend and she's my 1st girlfriend]
2007-03-24 16:48:45 · 19 answers · asked by appleMint 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hmmm... all your advice was very good but there's one small problem.. i once kiss her on the face while on a bus, she din resist but she did lean back (tis case, maybe evade) a bit. after i did that she says:" you are getting more naugthy" and i don't know wherther tats a good sign or not... tats y im hesistating on the lips kiss..... >,<
2007-03-24 17:06:52 · update #1
For your first kiss you should not plan a certain scenerio. It will only make you more nervous.
You should go for a walk after dark and someplace safe but private. Just keep the conversation going. Stare into her eyes while she's talking and be very close to her. As soon as she stops talking just lean forward and kiss her. It will be a surprise and a romantic one too for her.
Girls like guys that aren't afraid. We want you guys to be confident.
Don't hesitate after she stops talking. Kiss her as soon as she stops talking. That very second. That way she will never guess that you were nervous. Make it a long kiss too.
A small peck would be immature.
Place your arms around her as well. After the kiss, stare into her eyes again and say, "That was nice". "Your lips taste sweet."
We also find that bold approach very sexy.
2007-03-24 16:57:46 · answer #1 · answered by Molly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok maybe you should bring her out to romantic places like the beach and stuff. Make her really believe that you are serious about her and that you will be committed.
You guys should just chat and enjoy the view. Try to catch the sunset. It will be the most romantic thing ever. Then look into her eyes. SNAP! that is the wonderful feeling it is the moment. Draw closer to her. Kiss her slightly at her lips. Then slowly get into a french-kiss. That Would be the best feeling ever. Note: it might lead to petting.
Well.. it would work for sure cuz that is how i got my first kiss!
Oh by the way, if she resist the kiss, then just drop it cuz you dont want to be slapped. Drop the whole act. And wait for other moments like this. The key is PATIENCE.
GOOD LUCK WITH THE FIRST KISS!
2007-03-24 16:57:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I have a good idea. What you do is you take her to a movie. If you feel nervous sit in the back with her. Usually in the middle of the movie you move closer and closer and then kiss her. This has worked with the last 3 gf's i had....and im only 13 :-D
2007-03-24 16:53:17 · answer #3 · answered by sataneatscheesewhiz99 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say how old you are but I'm assuming you are young.If you really want to kiss her just tell her,but say you didn't want to do it in case you offended her or that she may not be ready.For all you know she may be wondering why you haven't done it already,Be prepared that she may refuse but if you have been seeing her for 2 months it won't be because she doesn't like you.GoodGood Luck and take it easy.
2007-03-24 17:01:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't wait for the girl cause u know she wont make the first move, u could ask her thats what her bf did & she didn't want one (she wasn't allowed to kiss for 2 more years) or just at random when your sitting next to her u could kiss her on the cheek then see what happens
2007-03-24 16:55:33 · answer #5 · answered by Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My hubby says to do this. Ask for one!!! If your unsure, and you guys seem to be having a good time, and you really want to kiss her...just ask her, "Is it alright if I kiss you." At least if she says no, you'll know where you two stand for now.
He asked me for the first kiss, and its very sweet to be asked permission instead of figuring out a way to fight off something you don't want.
2007-03-24 16:54:30 · answer #6 · answered by swee_pea630 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok you have given her enough time now its time to kiss her but give her little clues that you want to kiss her like bite your lips when looking at her or lick your lips an other strategy is to get het to stand in front of her and look at her then get your face close to her and there kiss her hope i helped !!!!! good luck budd
2007-03-24 16:56:17 · answer #7 · answered by andrew s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if both of you are the first couple then not to worry just be alone the two of u then chat to each other n try to get close enough to get started on the kissing...
2007-03-24 16:54:07 · answer #8 · answered by Shadow Venom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dogg she feels the same way, I was goin out with this chic & I was nervous to kiss her but when I did she liked it so it works out, do it or your gonna regret it if u don't
2007-03-24 16:54:41 · answer #9 · answered by Ian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww that's so cute! ^.^ Sorry. Set the mood, take her out, have fun, wait for the stars and isolate yourselves, then lean in nice and slow and plant one! Girls love romance, to us it’s better then candy.
2007-03-24 16:52:00 · answer #10 · answered by Kris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋