Okay, I've been friends with this really sweet, great girl for about 2 months now, and we got along so well that I decided to tell her I like her and to ask her out on a date. I did just that but got shot down (nicely, at least -- she said that she wasn't ready for that yet).
Anyway, I like/love her well enough that I'm willing to go out on a limb and ask again sometime soon. I just don't know how long to wait! She's very shy, so I think pestering her about it would hurt more than it would help, but I don't want to get stuck in a permanent "just friends" mode (yech!) either.
So, how long do you think I should wait? We're classmates, so she isn't going anywhere immediately.
2007-03-24 16:48:40 · 7 answers · asked by Baron Hausenpheffer 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
2 things: First, I'm not worried about losing confidence, so that's not an issue. Second, there really aren't any other girls I'm interested in dating right now. Just thought I'd add that info.
2007-03-24 17:12:42 · update #1
if she isnt ready than she isnt ready....dont try too many times she'll get annoyed. usually no means no. just flirt with her a bit. do you really need to go out with her? give her a little time at least. let her open up more. dont try too hard or ask too many times.
2007-03-24 16:52:43 · answer #1 · answered by Aquarius-Monkey 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude...never tell a girl that you like her up front. When you do this, you take all of the mystery out of yourself and she instantly knows that she can have you. Girls don't like that because you become easily attainable. Always remember that women are not logical. Also remember that she already shot you down once...why try again? It's her stupid fault for not wanting to date you. If you ask again, then you will most likely be wasting your time. My advice? Move on. Continue to be friends with her as long as you can handle being 'friends.' Sorry if this answer sounds a bit up front but I am totally just trying to help bro. In essence, this girl is no good for you.
2007-03-24 17:21:00 · answer #2 · answered by underdogontopnow 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
feels like he's not treating you with the honor you may prefer to be dealt with with. i think of that one and all men and females people have diverse expectancies, and if we meet a guy or woman who we actually take exhilaration in, then we enable a sprint of those expectancies all the way down to handle there brief comings. individually i think of he's impolite and irresponsible, and that i would not waste yet another minute of my time on him. in case you do prefer to proceed seeing him, if your date is at 8:00 tell him 7:30. stable success
2016-12-15 08:14:35 · answer #3 · answered by hume 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont wait, the longer you wait the more confidence you lose, and if you ask her again your an idiot, start dating a few more girls before you go back to her
2007-03-24 16:51:12 · answer #4 · answered by Tyler 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say a few days. maybe she is just shy and is trying to working up to feeling comfortable enough to say yes. she's probably kicking herself for not being able to come right out and say yes, when inside she may very well want that. I think it would definitely benefit you to wait, and you never know...good luck
2007-03-24 16:51:55 · answer #5 · answered by YinxSphinxmen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
14 minutes. The loner you wait the harder it will be.
2007-03-24 16:51:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask her away to decide !!!
2007-03-24 16:53:51 · answer #7 · answered by Tom S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋