each time i go to the movies with a girl and try to make a move i get scared and start worring about doing somethin wrong can u help me out
2007-03-24 16:47:38 · 25 answers · asked by Soviet 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Think about her personality first.
But if you think she will like it, then go, don't be afraid.
Like for example, if she is in a bad mood, try to pass first.
2007-03-26 18:07:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not make a move then. Think about it. Just be yourself. There is nothing more romantic then it just happening because you both feel it at the same time and you both move toward each other. Besides I know female friends that broke up with a guy that held her hand at the theater and it freaked her out. If you wait for the right time you don't have to worry about her breaking up with you cause you freaked her out.
2007-03-24 16:51:25 · answer #2 · answered by Peggy Pirate 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to test the waters. If you think she's into you, try holding her hand or putting your hand on her knee. Offer to buy popcorn or the tickets. If she's into you, she'll let you know. Oftentimes girls are nervous that a guy'll make a move in the theatre...people like to actually watch the film. Maybe you can wait and take her for coffee after the film and discuss it!
2007-03-24 16:50:43 · answer #3 · answered by Lyssepoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be scared. She might think if you don't make a move you don't like her and if she don't like it she will let you know verbally or with gestures. Start small and just hold her hand. You don't have to end up making out at the movies. Best of Luck on your next date.
2007-03-24 16:50:59 · answer #4 · answered by April F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I'm a dude but I can help. If you want to know when it is okay to kiss her, follow this simple tip: reach over and start stroking and playing with her hair. I know this sounds rediculous, but stay with me. If she lets you do this without any discomfort, then she is ready to be kissed. If she moves away, tells you to stop, or looks extremely uncomfortable, then she is not ready. I have done this over twenty times now and it has not failed me ONCE. Read this in a magazine. Just sharing the wisdom. Good Luck.
2007-03-24 17:26:57 · answer #5 · answered by underdogontopnow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hold the popcorn between you... notice when she puts her hand in for some... put yours in at the same time "by mistake" and you'll touch her hand. If you kindof linger there for a bit and she doesn't pull away in a hurry, then she's up for it.
But dude, making out in movie theatres is gross... settle for holding hands, letting her put her head on your shoulder, a kiss on the forehead (very sexy by the way)... save the makeout for later when other people don't have to listen -
plus, movies are so expensive that you may want to actually watch it! lol
2007-03-24 16:51:54 · answer #6 · answered by magicpixie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go for it, but don't try to be too fast. You should have more confidence because, if she's there with you she obviously has interest in you. If you try to push yourself on her though, you might scare her off.
Its difficult but you have to find a healthy balance between the two.
2007-03-24 16:51:41 · answer #7 · answered by Dan-Bi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry so much about making a move. We worry enough about whether or not we're going to have to fight you off when you make your move!!! Enjoy the movie, make your move later!!!!
2007-03-24 16:50:51 · answer #8 · answered by swee_pea630 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go to hold her hand. if she pulls away, just say oh excuse me and you know she is not interested. if she doesn't then she is interested and you wont be doing anything wrong. hold her hand then you can put your arm around her. dont move to fast or you may scare her off. good luck
2007-03-24 16:54:38 · answer #9 · answered by dune nana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life's short. The worst that can happen is that she'll say no. It doesn't seem like it now, but you'll get over it! As that idiot on comedy central says, 'Get 'er done!'
2007-03-24 16:51:00 · answer #10 · answered by bionicRod 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋