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I tried to cut my arm but I backed out cuhs I got scared. I just have so much drama going on in my life... A bunch of bull crap and all that s***... `nyone ever been through this?

2007-03-24 16:39:14 · 14 answers · asked by xbabyxhollisterx 1 in Health Mental Health

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You have got to be kidding? Of course, everyone has been through "drama" in their life. Sometimes life sucks big time and you wonder if it will ever be right.

When you start to feel sorry for yourself, all you need to do is walk through a nursing home and see all the poor people there who are no longer in their right mind or who are bed ridden. Then you should be thankful that you are still able to feed yourself, go to the bathroom by yourself and think for yourself.

Look at the people who have just lost their jobs because of the bad job market and wonder if they are going to be able to make the next house payment and feed their family. Then be thankful that you have a roof over your head and have food to eat.

So, stop feeling sorry for yourself, be happy with what you have and look at the supposed "drama" in your life and decide if its really worth cutting yourself over and feeling all sorry for yourself. In other words, get over yourself.

2007-03-24 16:55:21 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 2 0

I am really sorry that you have to go thru rough stuff BUT EVERYONE DOES. I am not trying to be mean but this whole "emo thing" is stupid. Are you trying to fit into that group or do you really need help because I dont get it. In the seventies would you of done crack to ease your pain, in the ninties would you have smoked to a Nirvana song. I mean really why do you try to deal with personal conflict by trying to be someone else.
Listen to how stupid this reality sounds:::You are wanting to cut your arm because you think life sucks and that is what emo"s do!!!
Try doing what everyone else does living with the fact that life has it times, going to seek help, talking to someone, meditation, go to church or some spirtual/religious congregation, or fixing the problem. You really dont want to cut yourself or you would have done it the first time. You are seeking attention because well first of all you asked the question about it. So get attention some other way than hurting yourself in such a nasty manner. What is so bad that you want to do that to yourself?

2007-03-24 23:56:56 · answer #2 · answered by charityislove 3 · 3 0

Cutting is becoming extremely common, especially among young women. It can be a phase, but can also develop into a severe mental illness that can cause much bodily harm or even be fatal. Call a mental health help line, find a close friend to talk to, or consider seeing a professional. Many communities have free or low cost therapy.

2007-03-25 00:09:19 · answer #3 · answered by stardigan 1 · 0 0

DONT go to a counsler... bad bad idea i hate to say it but it is. Not many counslers are really there for the intention of heloing the studants i tell this from experience your best bet would be to discuzz with a friend or your parents not a counsler talk to some one you KNOW you can trust not someone who doesnt really care about your life and intentions

2007-03-25 00:08:09 · answer #4 · answered by nattyx3sjacob 1 · 0 0

Nope.

Whats your husband going to say to you when your older and you have scars all over your wrists? You tripped with a pair of scissors? Seriously. That **** is pointless and painful and no reason to do it except for attention. Which definitely isn't worth it.
Try going to a counselor at school or talk to a close friend or relative about your problem.

2007-03-24 23:44:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

We all have drama going on in are life's. It's how we deal with it that matters. DON'T CUT! It's no good. Trust me I've been there. Why don't you talk to someone you trust? Yes Hun, we all have crap going on in are lives too.Maybe try going to therapy. Also hotlines. #1800-992-7575. It helps and you will feel better.....

2007-03-24 23:58:14 · answer #6 · answered by xo 2 · 2 0

Don't cut yourself please! I know you are desperate to get rid of the pain but if you are afraid to do it then maybe that's a sign that you shouldn't. It's easier for some people to do it than others. Trust me there are other ways to get rid of pain. For me I stretch. It makes you feel physical pain instead of emotionally and it's good for you too. Try sitting in a split position for a long time and pulling your leg up and stuff to furthur it. I know it sounds wierd but it works for me. ♥

2007-03-25 15:21:10 · answer #7 · answered by FML 3 · 0 0

don't cut yourself!
i cut myself and now i have all these scars on my arm and everywhere i go people question it. i regret cutting but it's just become a habit. i suggest you go to therapy before things gey out of hand like with me!
good luck!

2007-03-25 18:08:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

ive had that but i have NEVER cut myself. i dont want to mutilate myself. when im angry i scream into a pillow for awhile and then go for a walk in the forest and kick the crap outta trees. it works.

2007-03-24 23:58:56 · answer #9 · answered by bulletprooflonliness 4 · 1 0

just think of good things drama is nothing to loose your life over and i would personally be sad if you took your own life over petty drama i wish i could help

2007-03-25 00:02:41 · answer #10 · answered by Ladis R 1 · 0 0

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