Ladies, when your guy give you a back rub, do you like it hard or soft?

Question

Use oil or not? Pay attention guys, we are learning here!

Answer 1

I like it to start soft and gentle and progress to harder and oil or lotion is great because it helps keep friction down. You should also pay attention to her and her reaction to what you're doing. If she looks in pain and pulls away, ease up but if she is enjoying it, keep doing what you're doing.

Answer 2

Depends! If hes trying to intice me into bed then soft and with oil. If I had a real bad day at work and came home stressed out with a backache and kinks hard but with oil...definitely.

Answer 3

It depends if my back hurts--if it hurts I like my muscles massaged hard....if I just want a plain backrub I like it softer. No oil for me because I feel greasy. Plain nice smelling lotion that absorbs is ok, but not necessary. Hope this helped!!

Answer 4

i like it in between hard and soft...as in just right. and oil is really not necessary....i actually prefer not to have oil. but i like scented candles when i'm at a spa if that helps.

Answer 5

Hard, with oil. I actually like it harder than my husband's hands can handle! I, on the other hand, can give a mean massage.

Answer 6

with or without oil....
should start out soft and become hard...
like all men do !

Answer 7

i like both with and without oil!

Answer 8

holla at yo girl ladies like both but most of the time they like it hard because they like to feel defenceless and to feel like your in control.

Answer 9

not to hard are to soft somewhere in between and i like lotion

Answer 10

both..
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