2007-03-24 16:30:08 · 9 answers · asked by toosexy_904 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The first time is absolutely HORRIBLE. Youre scared to death and if youre a female you bleed.....it doesnt feel good and you wonder what was all the hype about....and if youre not really in love or sure the person u choose to give it to really loves you....your gonna feel like a nasty lil tramp.....and to make matters worse....youll have gotten nuthin outta the whole deal.
2007-03-24 16:39:36 · answer #1 · answered by marie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the first time if it is with someone that you really love and care about it a great feeling. if you are just doing it because you are being force to. it won't be that great. I think two people who do it have to have feelings for each other to feel the sensation of it. but tell your friend if she doesn't want to do it that she doesn't have to and she shouldn't be pressure for it.
2007-03-24 23:34:19 · answer #2 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your friend is getting pressured to have sex, what she needs is not a second-hand description of what the first time is like, what she needs is a friend who will strengthen her backbone to the point where she will be able to say NO, I AM NOT READY.
2007-03-24 23:33:17 · answer #3 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friend, if she or he feels pressured to get out quick. Do not allow your friend to be in a situation where he or she feels pressure.
Be a good friend and get her or him OUT!
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2007-03-24 23:33:38 · answer #4 · answered by Debi in LA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend should definetly not have sex under pressure. That is the worst thing to do. I believe you should tell your friend to think alot harder about that decision and suggest that she doesn't do it. You can't take back your mistakes.
2007-03-25 00:34:03 · answer #5 · answered by Ellen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her she may bleed uncontrollably and its painful. So make sure she is really comfortable. And you have a better chance of winning the lottery than marrying the man you gave your virginity to.
2007-03-24 23:35:04 · answer #6 · answered by nightwriter 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him to get out of the situation in which he is being pressured!
2007-03-24 23:34:33 · answer #7 · answered by frog 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, you *can* do something: Tell your friend to cool his or her heels. If they feel pressured, they don't need to be doing it.
2007-03-24 23:32:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first time is not as it is all hyped up to be. You are nervous do not know what you are doing.What can be so good about that?
2007-03-24 23:34:32 · answer #9 · answered by bumpie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋