i have these mean girls who call me ugly and say that im weird and are always trying to put me down. they criticize my friend 2 about her acne wen the grls saying the crap has acne 2!!! we try to ignore it but wat they say still kind of hurts. any helpful advice on how to get them off our backs?
2007-03-24 16:26:12 · 8 answers · asked by ??? 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Kill them with kindness
Example 1:
Preppy *****- Eww look at all that acne all over your face you should go hide somewhere
Your friend: Yeah I hear it makes it worse to cake makeup all over it, yeah kinda like what your zits are doing all over your face, hhmm i will try to keep an eye on mine c ya later
Preppy *****: God you are so freaking ugly
You: Just in your eyes I guess, do you need glasses or something
I know it is hard to overlook them but just remember that most girls do that to make themselves look and feel better about themslves. I know people like that are stupid but you are being the bigger person in the situation. If you can make it thru school I promise in college it will be different. Jus tthink of all the things you have going on for yourself right now including maturity which is something they most definitly dont have. Think positive and just because they have ruined their karma for years ahead dont mean you have to as well. Hey listen if you need anyone to talk to more about this just message me and I will try to help.
2007-03-24 16:42:12 · answer #1 · answered by charityislove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can be mean back. That will probably make you "feel better" for a time. It can also spark a longer and more difficult battle between you and them...maybe that is good, some people grow from such conflict.
However, it sounds like they are saying things that do bother you. None of us is perfect, and we all have flaws. So I beleive the goal is to be comfortable in our skin. So maybe you have some acne, or are overweight. Hey I once went to bed so drunk I pee'd in bed on my girlfriend! Gross and embarassing, but you know, humor can get us through anything.
It is true that these girls are insecure about themselves...I know girls just like this, and guys too. The thing I have found is that they do respond to a combination of jabbing back at them and also expressing interesting in them. So yes, you can call one a slut and then follow up by asking them how they have such a clear complexion.
Be more forgiving and and have a sense about yourself, but also engage these girls, both in their language of meanness, but also in a new language of sincerity. You probably won't be their friends, but you will confuse them enough that they will probably not want to push you in public.
2007-03-24 23:45:59 · answer #2 · answered by A V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just break out one day with, "Who the f*ck do you think you are?!?!?? You're a pathetic piece of sh*t!" Don't scream it, but say it loudly, so that people can hear you defend yourself. Once you start defending yourself, even one time, you will be amazed at how fast people will stop messing with you! Everyone, including the mean girls, will RESPECT YOU, and your problem will be over. DO NOT LET ANYONE INTIMIDATE YOU!!! Just think, "Screw them!!!"
2007-03-25 00:09:04 · answer #3 · answered by F 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Throw water on them. All mean girls melt. Or they will freak out about their hair. Seriously though, just cuss them out. Or if you don't like that, ignore them or give them a piece of their own medicine. Target anything they may be self concious about (Skin, hair, weight, etc.)
2007-03-24 23:32:52 · answer #4 · answered by Brandon 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Beat their ******* heads in. Yeah or just keep things in perspective. Nobody likes those girls, they're just scared of them. Don't let it bother you, people like that end up as crack whores.
2007-03-24 23:36:12 · answer #5 · answered by ....... 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get her to fall in love with you,then hurt her bad.Catch aids and share it.There take that beitch....only kidding! Just be nice.
2007-03-25 00:22:05 · answer #6 · answered by dogswamp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't give them the gratification of giving them your attention, view them as a problem and treat them as a problem, just ignore them till they leave you alone
or call them fat
big fat fatties
fat fat fatties
2007-03-24 23:43:14 · answer #7 · answered by Eric the Red 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MKL: I TOTALLY *****-SMAKED ONE THREE DAYS AGO, IT ROCKED!!! but if you don't want to go to that extreme, just tell them to go eff themselves or something or even better, tell an adult, i know it doesn't sound like it'd work, but it does....
Rei: I envy you. . .
2007-03-24 23:30:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋