friend is trying to steal my bf?

Question

my best friend is trying to steal my boyfriend away and is always flirting with him, what do i do?

Answer 1

She isn't your friend - dump her.

Answer 2

What are his actions like? Does he buy into the flirting? Does he flirt back?

Also, is your friend clearly trying to steal him or is she just someone who has a flirtatious attitude? Cause it could be possible that she doesn't have those intentions.

If the answers to the first part is "yes" and if she is clearly trying to steal him then she is no friend of yours and he isn't being a good boyfriend to you.

I'd say confront them separately and get a better idea of what the deal is. If they confirm everything then honestly sweety just break it off with both of em. Let em know what you think about the whole situation and walk away with your head held high.

Answer 3

Does your boyfriend know that your friend is flirting with him and trying to steal the spotlight away from you? If not then you need to tell him and let him know why she is doing that so he knows what to look out for and so he can be prepared and then you need to have a sit down chat with your friend and let her know that you know what is going on and you don't appreciate what she is doing and would like it if she would stop and find a man of her own that she can flirt with instead of yours, and what she does with your advice to hear is totally up to her and if she does not want to be friends with you after that then it means that she is not a good friend and did not want to respect your wishes knowing that you were dating him first.

Answer 4

A number of things come to mind, but ask yourself first before doing anything, "Is this guy my soul mate and will we always be together?" and two, how valuable is my friendship with my "best friend"? If she is a real friend, she shouldn't be trying to take what is yours. If he is a real soul mate, he should not allow the flirting to become anything more serious (but he is a male and probably will). If you can leave them both behind and move on, do nothing. If you really want to keep the guy, tell your girlfriend to shove off, and as for the best friend thing, I would re-evaluate who is really your best friend.

Answer 5

she's not a best friend then. Tell her to stop it. If he's not flirting back trust him,and try to avoid being around her. Best friends should have a hands off rule. I know mine do,and so do I.

Answer 6

Kindergarten. That was a lesson. The lesson is that no one is yours. They may say they are there for you. They may say they will never change their minds or leave you. But when they find what it is that they find in another that they never found in you they will leave you and that will be that. At least, I was lucky to learn that lesson early and to learn it at the end of the school year. Plus, being so young I never felt the true hurt of the situation. Those were a day, a day in the life. The answer is yes.

Answer 7

confront your friend about it. they have no right to be doing so ESPECIALLY if its your best friend. obviously shes not much of a friend if shes trying to steal your boyfriend
and are you sure its all her? maybe your boyfriend is playing into it to
i'd watch your back

Answer 8

If your bf is flirting back then get rid of both of them.

Answer 9

Talk to her, tell her you dont appreciate her flirting with him. And just see how he responds to her flirting, and if he is enjoying it, then let them have each other...you dont need that.

Answer 10

meet your boyfriend at the door without any clothes on, with a playboy in your hand, and volunteer to strike any sexy poses he wants. let your best friend compete with that!!!!

Answer 11

leave her with your boyfriend. i think you can get another one that is better than the old one. but if it is very difficult for you, you should discuss with them.