ok, my best friend has a girlfriend that i dont like. she snotty and i think shes fake. Well i liked him for 2 years before she (girlfriend) moved here and i stil do. he has feelings for me too ,,but he is still wit her. we are sooo much alike it not even funny. but i cant stand seeing him wit her. we hang out almost everyday and i always talk to him at school. he knows i like him too. i just need to kno wat my next move should be.
2007-03-24 16:02:22 · 15 answers · asked by taylaboo_14 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just talk to him maybe he will move on and choose u he is using the girl to make u jealous
2007-03-24 16:05:59 · answer #1 · answered by jewel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to accept that he has a girlfriend and move on, whether or not you like him and he likes you back or whatever. Plus, if he has a g/f but likes someone else, doesn't that send a bad message about him anyway?
Don't pressure him by being around him all the time, calling him up, basically acting like you would with a crush. If he has a girlfriend, you really need to respect that and just move on. Honestly, how would you feel if you had a boyfriend and you knew that some girl was hopelessly in love with him and was his best friend and was always hanging around him?
Be a good friend to this guy and let him alone with his girlfriend, you don't want to complicate things by getting into the mix because if this situation has a nasty ending, it'll be on YOUR plate - no matter which way you spin it.
If he breaks up with his g/f and goes out with you, that's great. But for right now you need to just let things go and go with the flow.
2007-03-24 16:09:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You like your best friend that you've known for 2 years and he likes you too. He has a girlfriend know and your jealous. It hurts your feelings to see them together and you guys still talk. ....I think your next move is to let the two just be together. Go find yourself a boyfriend that you like and show him what he's missing. If this guy likes you and he knows you like him, he either is not too sure if you like him like that in a boyfriend way, he's just leading you on for two years, or he's just being a friend. Why wait two years for anything to happen.
2007-03-24 16:13:17 · answer #3 · answered by cyee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should just be friends with him if that is possible. But if you like him it probably would be hard to see him with her. You should go ahead and start hanging out with other people so you can keep your mind off of him. Maybe you might meet someone else that is a lot more respectful to you and cares about your feelings. It sounds like your best friend is wasting your time if he has his mind on her and not you. Don't waste your time on him. You've already wasted enough of your precious time. Get out and meet a real man.
2007-03-24 16:17:04 · answer #4 · answered by Terry m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can TOTALLY relate to what you're saying!! I'm in a similar situation, but I am a lot older than you. What I have decided is to step back from my guy friend, spend less time together, and not be as close. It's not fair to his girlfriend or to him in his relationship for me to be right in the middle of his business. The way I see it, if he realizes that he misses me being close to him, then he'll see that this girl isn't worth losing me for. Good luck to you. Hang in there!
2007-03-24 16:08:10 · answer #5 · answered by daisy99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is clear to him that you have an interest in him, that's all you should do. Be friendly, don't talk down to him about the girlfriend (you will just seem jealous) and continue to share a friendship with him. If it turns into more, you'll know it. Give it time. Meanwhile, go on with your life happy, smiling, laughing and enjoying yourself!
2007-03-24 16:07:43 · answer #6 · answered by enjoyrselves 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry hon, but if he's truly your "best friend" than you should be happy for him that he found someone that makes him happy not you. If she's as bad as all that then he'll wake up and thats when you can be a true best friend and be there for him to help pick up the pieces. If u try and down grade her in his eyes u might lose his friendship all together.
2007-03-24 16:09:17 · answer #7 · answered by Carmela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be patient.
You do not want to come across as being the jealous type.
If she is as awful as you say she is your friend has to find this out on his own.
The only time you should get involved if it is something about her character that would bring harm to your friend.
You can do what all good friends must, be there for him when he needs you and stay out of his personal affairs.
No I told you so's or anything like that.
A good friend offers support when it is needed and minds their own business when it is necessary to do so.
2007-03-24 16:07:58 · answer #8 · answered by makeda m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has a girlfriend, leave him alone. It's as simple as that, when they break up then make your move because more often then not will the feelings still be there. Good luck.
2007-03-24 16:06:05 · answer #9 · answered by ~(*) Loving Life (*)~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as much as you may hate it, you should support him in his choice of a gf. If he didn't want to be with her, than he wouldn't be. Also, just try to be nice to her as much as possible. If she still is snotty to you, try talking to him about it.
2007-03-24 16:06:40 · answer #10 · answered by Jaded 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋