He's been borrowing my ipod now for like the past 5 weeks basicly. And just because he has been borrowing it he thinks he can just tell me what to do and what I am going to download on it too . Ok besides all that though he used to text me every day and night even during school. And like really really late at night or (morning). Like at 4:00 .a.m. or like the earleist time he would kall would be like 8: 00 .a.m. the next moning. And he always thinks about what I think.( Or I think.)
2007-03-24
16:00:13
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Jami W
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Also when he gave me the ipod back to charge(for when his computer was broken) I found a giant scartch across the screen. Of course he said he didn't do . So of course me being me I believed him. So of course I paid for it to be fixed.
2007-03-24
16:32:42 ·
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P.S. Also I think I may have a problem here when he asked me if he could have my favorite family guy stewie wallet i said yes.(Sure it is kinda a boy wallet but i liked it.)
2007-03-24
16:56:05 ·
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he is using u say u like somethin he does u say u dont he dont dump him he is a user
2007-03-24 16:03:42
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answered by jewel 1
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Issues like this generally pan out to a reason. In order to get the reason as to why he is being the way he is, refuse to let him borrow anything if he asks and ask him what he wants with your stuff and why he wants it. Its common for people to borrow things for a few days, but for months at a time? Question him and see what you get.
Remember, be open to any conclusions. But if he refuses to tell you a valid reason, then he's playing you like a deck of cards. And if you truly cared about him, you'd confront him.
2007-03-24 16:12:48
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answered by Meep 3
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In HIS mind he's not using you but he is without knowing it.
He is just a very bossy friend. He is also making your life miserable. He needs to back off. He doesn't own you and you need to tell him.
He is taking advantage of your good nature. Tell him how you feel and tell him if he doesn't stop being so bossy, you will ask for your Ipod back right now.
2007-03-24 16:06:46
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answered by Molly 6
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If you have noticed a change in his behaviour since you have given up your ipod to him maybe you are right.
Tell him that you are feeling used and why.
If you are wrong he should have a valid reason about his change in attitude.
If you are right then you have the information you need to move on or discuss what is bothering you.
2007-03-24 16:04:49
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answered by makeda m 4
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take it back, see if he sticks around and gives you the same attention.
regardless, it's your ipod, that's a pretty $$ piece of equipment. personally I don't really let people borrow mine for a day let alone 5 weeks.
2007-03-24 16:05:36
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answered by Critter Rocks 1014 2
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sounds like he's using you. i would test him. tell him you need to use your ipod for something, or that's it's broken. and see what he does. if he doesn't ask for anything else, he's probably using you. if he uses someone elses ipod, then he's using you.
not sure what he'll do if you tell that too him, but it's a guage of a reaction.
2007-03-24 16:06:10
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answered by mike s 6
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EWWWW...get your ipod back, like yesterday. Dump the Zero and find you a HERO!
2007-03-24 16:06:31
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answered by SpiritualSeeker 2
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How do you know? If you don't, I can tell you he is using you.
Get your ipod back as soon as you can, and don't loan him anything anymore.
2007-03-24 16:04:17
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answered by tkquestion 7
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He's just using you. Follow your instincts and good luck!
2007-03-24 16:04:02
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answered by clbinmo 6
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tell him to get his own freakin iPod and to leave you alone.
2007-03-24 16:02:47
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answered by Vexer D 4
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