I am such an ugly loser. i have too many freackles, my leg hair comes back every day, i'm fat, and no boys liike me !!!! help!!! i need self esteem!
2007-03-24 15:54:24 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im a guy and overweight, i felt the same way and then i realized that i am a good person and that these other people who are "good looking" are no better than i am. i know youve probably heard this before but just learn to like yourself. once i did this i almost immediately got a date and a lot more friends. Although appearance is valued in society, it has no reflection on the person you are or what you have to offer
2007-03-24 15:59:05 · answer #1 · answered by matt 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hot guys are trouble. i can tell you from experience, they care more about themselves than you. i know it's probably hard to wait if you're still in middle school (i can't tell because you didn't say your age), but by the time you get into high school, there will be a lot of guys who care about more things than looks. the guys that dont like you now aren't the guys you want to like you. as weird as it may sound, youre lucky. as SOME guys mature, they will learn appreciate you for you, which is all that really matters. as for the ones now, just forget about them, because you deserve better. eventually, you will find a perfect guy. just be patient.
as for the self esteem issue, you can do a couple of things. if you feel you are really fat and need to lose weight, you can come up with a plan to eat right and exercise. if your leg hair grows back, get a wax or laser removal; it lasts way longer. who cares if you have freckles? theyre cute, and im not just saying that. even if you do these things to improve your appearance, it will do nothing for your self esteem if you arent comfortable with who you are. pretend you are the most confident person in the world, and you will soon start to believe it. appreciate who you are, and know that nobody else is like you. if you still feel you have low self esteem and have done everything to help it, you can talk to your parents or see a psychologist, they really can help.
2007-03-24 23:08:19 · answer #2 · answered by Ashley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of boys love, love, love freckles!
Some cultures don't care about leg hair. You can work on the fat thing if you really want to. It sounds like you are just having a low self esteem day, think of your talents and remember someone will love you just the way you are.
2007-03-24 22:57:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't worry so much about your physical appearance. A guy shouldn't like you just because you look good. If he does, then is it worth it? My advice for you is to just go out and make friends and not worry so much about finding a boyfriend. If that's not a good idea, then try to eat a healthy diet and stat working out. Don't worry about your legs. Just don't let the hair get too long, or long enough for them to notice. Either that or get the hair out by laser removal, or just wear pants.
P.S. There is nothing wrong with the single life.
2007-03-24 23:01:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st of all your not a loser, and you not ugly...you have to like yourself,,,so what you have to shave everyday,,,and theres no such thing as too many freckles,,,you have freckles...ok your fat,,,we all want to lose weight,,,do something about it,,,take baby steps,,,eat a little better and start to exercise,,you can do it,,and don't worry about how much you have to lose or how long it will take. before you know it,,you'll start feeling more like a swan.....good luck
2007-03-24 23:02:48 · answer #5 · answered by igottadrive2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With a name like Foxbabe I don't say that you need self-esteem. Freckles are cute and add character and you just need to shave your legs every day and cut back on the sweet food and chocolate . Excercise frequently and regularily.
2007-03-24 23:00:04 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you have to start thinking good about yourself, and freckles, are not bad alot of pretty girls have frecles, my cousin does she is covered from head to toe. and every women hair leg comes back. thats normal. and I don't know how much you weigh and that, but if you think your fat than do something about it. and don't be in such a rush for boys. you will find the right one. but you have to feel good about yourself. good luck.
2007-03-24 23:00:33 · answer #7 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok every one is beautiful on the inside. Just get a little makeup and do your hair nice. If your willing to pay big bucks do a laser hair removal. It works. Good luck no 1 is ever ugly.
2007-03-24 22:59:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your biggest bully is yourself. no ones perfect. now stop sulking and try making something of yourself. you dont need a boy to like you. just be yourself and have self confidnece at least pretnedt wen youre around people. people feed off of you hating yourself. if you dont love yourself how can anyone else love you? calling yourself an ugly loser wont help you much either.
2007-03-24 22:59:46 · answer #9 · answered by Aquarius-Monkey 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
okay a) if u keep thinking that it will happen so start thinking positive thoughts b) you sound like a teen ager and so am i but we dont need boyfriends right now c) freckles are very in; if ur leg hair grows back every single day, shave it every single day; think your fat? work out and eat right done problems solvded
2007-03-24 22:59:13 · answer #10 · answered by Starstrukk 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋