ok i met this amazing girl about 2 months ago, i kissed her and she kissed me and everything but she has a b.f, everytime i called her after she could never hang out, now recently i saw her and told her that i dont know her much but she is the perfect girl for me, i told her that, and wrote her a poem, yesterday after we talked she said she doesnt know what to say/do, she has been with her b/f on and off, and she doesnt know to end it or not, on the way back, she told me id meet a better girl and forget about her, and itold her that no other girl is better than her. idk what to do now what should i do
i just really cant get over her,i want to do anything to be with her
she texted me recently saying she bought me a shirt and such, and idk if shes just being nice, but i called her tonight and she said she would call me back and let me know.
2007-03-24 15:54:14 · 5 answers · asked by amiconealex 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what do u reccomend i do keep calling her everday to show her i mean everything i say, or keep it cool and lay off till she calls. like today at work i couldnt text and she would text me every 5 min, i dont know what to do right now, i want to call her but she said shed call me
2007-03-24 15:56:52 · update #1
oh man. i dunno what other people are gonna tell you but when a girl already has a bf, whether it be on or off, you should just walk away. if it's meant to be than it's meant to be but don't try to force something like this. sounds like she's unsure to begin with, if you guys are perfect for each other than why try to convince her of it? i recommend you wait until they break up for sure and then approach her. think about it, if you had a gf and you guys were on and off would you like some guy coming in out of no where trying to steal her away? if it ends than let it be because they decided it, if you don't you might have a problem if you do manage to hook up. she might feel like her and her ex had some unfinished business.
2007-03-24 16:04:29 · answer #1 · answered by David Gato 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that must have been some kiss to stirr up your emotions so soon in the relationship. Are you thinking with your heart;mind or just lonely? I truly feel that if the two of you are meant to be the road she is on should be clear with no B.F.. and she should'nt what her cake and eat it too. giving you gifts ;seeing another man. not a good start for a true relationship. are you Dating another woman and buying her gifts? She has no business leading you on. wake up before someone really gets hurt. Stay away and let her make up her mind and be honest to you and the other man.put the Ball in her park and wait. if she has any true feelings or truly respects you she will leave the other guy and stop playing games with the two of you. That is not love; nor is it fair to you or him. that is not the way you start a relationship together. Slow your emotions down and give them time to heal. If it is met to be it will come out in your favor.in time . It sounds like this kissing is a new experience for you and she did ok but alot more at stake. take it slow and let her go.if it is meant to be it will happen.
2007-03-24 23:29:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you start calling all the time she'll think you're weird. Just give her her space. You've told her how you feel and the next move is up to her. If she has a b/f then maybe she regrets the kiss and hasn't told you because she doesn't want to hurt you. If she wants to pursue what is happening between ya'll, she'll let you know...but if you push too hard you may push her away. The last time I told a guy he'd meet a better girl I was encouraging him to go looking. I was attracted to him but not enough to leave what I have. So just go on with your life and let her make - or not make - the next move. It'll hurt less than building up your hopes and watching them fall if she doesn't choose you. Good luck!
2007-03-24 23:06:44 · answer #3 · answered by okwriting 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should back off. she has a boyfriend. she told you to find someone else. i dont think your that dense. she is keeping you around by texting you all the time. i think thats some kind of game. she cant be with you, she has a boyfriend, but she knows you like her. so, just in case she gets really tired of her boyfriend, you can be her back up.
2007-03-24 23:03:12 · answer #4 · answered by zsaffireblue2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do like she told you...get another girl...after you get over her. You don't want to drag another person down to ease your pain..that is why I told you to get over this girl and then find another one. You will get over her in time...Good Luck
2007-03-24 23:00:07 · answer #5 · answered by clbinmo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋