i dont want a boyfriend, rite now im just having fun, and both guys im dealing with know this, but i dont tell either one about the other one, not that they'll get mad but its not really any of their business.... is it bad to have 2 guys at the same time?
2007-03-24 15:54:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
they arent my "boyfriends" just... friends you know, but im gettin strong feelings for one of them..
2007-03-24 16:00:41 · update #1
Yes,,,because sooner or later one of them you are going to hurt or maybe even both of them.
2007-03-24 15:57:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's usually not reccomended. If you're having an open relationship with both of them, and everyones in the know - then no harm done. But when you're seeing one guy, and even tho you may have said "not interested in a relationship right now", it still may not have been taken like that. Not saying that you are responsible for how they react to your feelings on the subject. But if they both kinda find out, it may turn out bad for you. They may see it as you using them, or worse. I know this, as I've done it. I was dating three guys around the same time (years ago, in my single days) and even tho everyone knew I wasn't looking for a relationship, I never actually said that I was going out on dates with other guys. It's not as if I were purposely hiding it, but i never devulged the information either. One day I told one of them that I hate a date the night before, and he blew up on me. Said that I was a user, and some other lovely stuff. So just because you think you've got your story straight, doesn't mean that everyone else has been reading the book line by line.
Just be cautious, you don't want to hurt anyone. :)
2007-03-24 16:07:19 · answer #2 · answered by Kass 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not if you are not in a serious relationship w/ neither one of them. You are just dating them and getting to know people, you don't have to date one person at a time if you are not involved in any other way other than just going out and having a good time. When you start feeling like you want to start something with one of them let the other one know and there will be no problem. Have fun and enjoy!
2007-03-24 15:58:50 · answer #3 · answered by Pretty Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds like your keeping a secret from each of them. even If you think they won't mind , you should still tell them. Suppose they start developing deep feelings for you, and here they are thinking that they are the only one that your seeing. Don't you think that will hurt? There is nothing wrong with seeing more than one person at a time, as long as your honest wiith them, tell them that youd like to see them but would also like to see other people, let them decide if they still want to get involved with you.
2007-03-24 16:02:56 · answer #4 · answered by SpiritualSeeker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You say you make the fact that you do not want anything serious clear to both. Be aware that it could present a problem if the two guys are friends. Also, be safe sexually..... : ) Good luck and have fun!
2007-03-24 16:00:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anton 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah!
is it bad for your boyfriend to have 2 girls? probably - unless your into that.
also you shouldn't lead on a guy if your not romantically interested in either one. and you should tell them that.
if they are simply friends, then it shouldn't matter either way.
2007-03-24 15:58:14 · answer #6 · answered by mike s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not bad if you are not sexin both of them. Don't kiss on both of them because they may be kissing on girls that are kissing on other people as well. Then, you'll have hepatitis or herpes.
2007-03-24 15:59:16 · answer #7 · answered by Xpensive 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. Enjoy them.
2007-03-24 15:56:53 · answer #8 · answered by littlemissy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋