I have an issue with my bf at the moment about how many times he's lied to me about stupid things and now not being able to trust him. We are actually engaged and have a 9mth old together and an 8yr old of my own. When ever I try to tell him how I'm feeling and ask him for help he tells me to stop going on with sh*#
and either gets violent and smashes things or falls to sleep. This issue I have is eating me alive and making me really sick, so much that I'm losing weight and I never have been over weight.
HOW do I get him to listen to me especially when he's caused my trouble for being so untrustworthy. Please help.
2007-03-24 15:53:51 · 2 answers · asked by golden tigress 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If your boyfriend gets violent when you talk to him, I say it is time to leave. You do not want to put yourself or your children at risk. Right know he only throws things, but what happens if it gets worse or one of those flying objects hits you or your kids?
You need to do what is best for you and your children. Being safe is one of them. I know you love this man, but being around a violent person is not good for your family to be around.
I wish you the best of luck in your deceision.
My thoughts are with you.
2007-03-24 17:28:29 · answer #1 · answered by kitty angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is makin u that unhappy. leave him. or tell him hey u make me feel this way or that way. and tell him u cant be with sumone that does that to u. let him kno it hurts u. dont ignore the problem.
2007-03-24 23:06:59 · answer #2 · answered by ashley c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋