OMG, what a pain in the neck. My guy is always spying on me. He acts like he doesn't but come on now. He must think I'm dumb. And posing as other people. What should I do?
2007-03-24 15:53:00 · 15 answers · asked by ~* Garden Empress*~ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Seems everyone else said the same thing I would say, Get rid of him.
As sad as it may seem, if he cannot trust you, then end it. To me, trust is the main thing any relationship needs to continue in the right direction. If you do not have trust, you are always in doubt, and doubt leads to something you, or I hope to never reach.
Find someone who can trust you, and shouldn't have to worry about "what is she doing?" This person should not have to worry about this, and worry about more important things.
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Confrontation, as a few have suggested...
If someone is so insecure about them self, for whatever reason that be, will NOT give you an honest answer, or will completely reject your question, and tell you they "haven't" been spying on you.
I will not spy on the one I love, and should not have to. We are both open with one another, and eventually all things that would be questionable, come out.
2007-03-24 16:02:35 · answer #1 · answered by brandonedbishop 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Beat the **** out of him and tell him if he doesn't quit what he's doing then you're over, it's as simple as that. Other then that tell him to grow up and get a life maybe he's cheating on you and his insecurties are what is causing him to spy on you because he thinks you may be cheating. Good luck and hope this helps.
2007-03-24 16:15:21 · answer #2 · answered by ~(*) Loving Life (*)~ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get out of the relationship as soon as you can!! It sounds like this guy has some major control issues. That's never a good thing!
2007-03-24 15:55:47 · answer #3 · answered by daisy99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to handle this is to tell him you don't appreciate his actions, ask him to stop and ask him why he feels it necessary to do these things. If it still doesn't stop and you feel like he doesn't have any reason to doubt you, cut your losses and move on. You don't need a stalker!!
2007-03-24 15:59:51 · answer #4 · answered by sugarfoot 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My ex used to hide tape recorders all around and then blame my kids that didn't even know how to use one!! Tell him to go see a shrink, grow up, get over any past hurts he has....or if you are not honest...drop him so you don't hurt him.
2007-03-24 15:56:54 · answer #5 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you find this as a severe problem and you've asked him consecutively to stop. Dump his sorry behind and file a restraining order against him.
2007-03-24 15:56:53 · answer #6 · answered by Meep 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are secretly flattered when you should be running in the other direction. He's a control freak.
2007-03-24 15:55:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you know that he is spying on you, and that if you can trust him, then he should be able to trust you.
2007-03-24 15:56:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him or he will make your life miserable and then blame you for being jealous. Good Luck
2007-03-24 15:56:57 · answer #9 · answered by clbinmo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seriously. that is a sign of a bigger yet undiscovered problem. dump him and find a guy who's trust you can earn.
2007-03-24 15:55:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋