hey females, does your man check out other chics?

Question

when u r w/ your man does he obviously look @ other females? Do u find it disrespectful? Or is that normal for the man to act in this manner?

Answer 1

he doesn't when he's with me. but i'm sure he does when he's with his buds. that's just natural

Answer 2

I think it's quite normal for a guy. Most try to keep it subtle, but hey, there's only so much you can do. It's not really disrespectful since the guy can't help it. But when he meets "THE ONE" other females become just part of the environment. Oh, and there is no way you can make him stop, you can only run him away.

Answer 3

its normal but also disrespectful. tell him if hes with you he cant have his eyes wandering on others and don't tempt him by like taking him to the beach or having friends around being immodist. remaember he might say its normal and no big deal but looking leads to other thingsso dsont let him look but dont get all overobssesive and not let him even look at a nother girl just make sure itsmi the eyes or face!

Answer 4

I think it is completely normal (and also expected) to admire attractive people. I've seen needless jealousy destroy many relationships.

My husband and I openly discuss members of the opposite sex that we find attractive. We don't see anything wrong with it, and it shows we're secure with each other.

If my husband gets turned on by some hot chick in the supermarket, who do you think will be the recipient of this lustful energy when we get in bed ;)

Answer 5

when im with my boyfriend i notice him looking at other girls and i expect it from him i grew up around alot of guys being the youngest of three and the only girl i always hung out with my brothers but they never realy noticed i was there cause i was so small i always listen to what they say and i see what they do when they see other girls and i have leaned to understand it it is in thier nature same a girls we all do the same thing we see a hot guy and we look its not our fault some people are attractive i would say dont worry about it its fine

Answer 6

HAHAHA! My wife doesn't mind at all. As long as I don't touch. I can even say "Did you see the rack on that one?"!

She'll often say "Yeah, that was amazing'.

Lookeehere... people can be beautifully attractive, and looking doesn't necessarily mean leering. If "your man" does this in your presence, try this.........

Say something flattering or complimentary about the other woman & see how he reacts. Show a little self confidence!

Answer 7

My boyfriend does not. I'm sure he does when I am not around. But I feel that it is VERY disrespectful for him to look at other women when he is around me, and he understands this. I have Never caught him checking out other women.

Answer 8

He does, but I do too. I am not dead., I know an attractive man when I see one, and why not look. Its pleasurable. When I catch the old man, I usually laugh, or poke fun at him. Everyone does it, its a matter of how uptight your girlfriend is or how sneaky you are.

Answer 9

My man does sometimes and i think that it is really rude that he would do that right in front of me. Now i know he loves me and i have nothing to worry about but if he is going to check other girls out atleast don't do it around me.

Answer 10

Its disrespectful. If he looks I better not be around. It has not happened to me yet.

Answer 11

okay...my man does that at times and i tend to catch him at it and say something! im like if you want her soooo much then maybe me and you shouldnt be together! and that brings him right back to me! but that kind of normal for a male to look at other females! its what they do! so us as women have to learn to deal with it!