I just got this email from my ex. I still love him, but I don't know if it's worth my time to rebuild. What d'you think?
I don't want to have to feel like I have to call you because I feel forced to call or text. Our conversations don't feel the same way to me as they were before. I feel strained. This is partly because it is not important to me, I find myself running out of minutes. Maybe I am being heavy handed, but I cannot give you the time you want and the ability to say I can call you at this time. I would rather say, let me get back to you when I feel comfortable, rather than, tomorrow, because I know tomorrow I am going to be busy. There is no rush, either, to do anything, and if there was a rush, I would really need a good explanation...
I do not want the responsibility of being the reason you are visiting NYC. What is it that you want now, out of our conversations? Be clear. I know what I want: to feel good when I talk to you and to stay in touch because of our history.
2007-03-24 15:37:34 · 7 answers · asked by Christina V 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sweetheart, its over
Its time to find someone else...................
Be strong, be strong.....
2007-03-24 15:50:29 · answer #1 · answered by statenislanddreamer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he's confused. He's basically saying he wants to talk to you at his convenience yet he wants to feel good and stay in touch? I don't think he's worth it. He obviously is more concerned about his feelings and his well being than yours. Most relationships that didn't last the first time won't last a second time. There's a reason it didn't work. I hope you can figure it out though. Good luck
2007-03-24 15:44:39 · answer #2 · answered by blessed mommy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your ex boyfriend might be unclear of your intentions or what you have written and he explains that he does not want you to make any special trips to NYC just because of him or because you feel like you have to. He could be saying that he is not ready to back to try to make it work if that is what you are portraying to him when you wrote him an e-mail or talked to him on the phone. He hopes that wahtever you say will give him positive feedback about what to say to you. Just give him sometime and then see what happens.
2007-03-24 15:47:48 · answer #3 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he's seeing someone else, but he likes the attendtion...take it from someone who's been there. If he likes the attendtion...consider the fact that your attendtion is worth more than someone like him..and move on. If you feel the burning question "if it's worth my time to rebuild" than you've answered your own question. Good luck sweetie...and remember...you and your time are worth more than that.
2007-03-24 15:44:43 · answer #4 · answered by former beach bunny 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All I can say is, you should read the letter I wrote to my first ex!
At least he's being clear and direct about his intentions and what he wants.
2007-03-24 15:45:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
is that the email he sent u?? yikes,,,don't even answer. I would never go back with my ex anyway
2007-03-24 15:43:12 · answer #6 · answered by igottadrive2001 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
SEE YA BABE!!!!!!! Tell him that and see what he says!
2007-03-24 15:41:09 · answer #7 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋