i'm 14 and I flirt with guys all of the time but all they seem to talk about is the size of my chest and the short skirts I were . do thet like me for me or just my body ???
2007-03-24 15:35:36 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I didn't know 14 year old girls had a "chest." Who'da though...
2007-03-24 15:39:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
During adolescence, all boys can really think about is your body, especially if you are wearing clothing which shows it well. You might try changing your style a little if you want guys to like you for some other reasons. Like Dave Chappelle says, if you go around wearing the uniform of a cop, people are going to think you're a cop; if you go around wearing short, skimpy clothing, people are going to think you're....
2007-03-24 15:42:18 · answer #2 · answered by Gretta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
None of them take you seriously, thats why they are probably talking about your body more than your personality. They might only want to go out with you just to get some, and nothing else as no guy wants a VERY flirty girl as a girlfriend.
2007-03-24 15:39:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are 14. this means they like you for just your body. until you are at least 18, no one is gonna like you for your mind. it hurts to hear it, but it's true. only once you are an adult do guys actually consider girls for their minds. the old "i wanna tell you how much i love your mind but it simply isn't true" type of thing.
2007-03-24 15:40:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
They only talk about those things because you are a flirt. Back off, don't try so hard.
2007-03-24 15:39:07 · answer #5 · answered by omnivus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviouly your body but if u keep looking you'll find someone. and flirting with every guy u meet isn,t the best idea either. but you're only 14 and i hope u figure it out along the way!!! good luck!
2007-03-24 15:41:15 · answer #6 · answered by gothpunk_420 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 14, the boys are just like you. All they think about is your chest, and what is underneath your short skirt. You like them because of what's in their pants? You are probably just as horny as they are. Just be careful, and remember "No Glove, No Love".
2007-03-24 15:42:31 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
One thing, sweetie..JUST BE YOURSELF!!! If you have a big chest why flirt..I didn't have to. Wait for them to come to you and be choosey. You don't have to wear skimpy clothes either. DONT get a bad name sooo young.
2007-03-24 15:39:50 · answer #8 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try going out with a blind guy he won't like you for your body
2007-03-24 15:40:37 · answer #9 · answered by mikeandike16 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ummmmmm if you really want guys to like u4u then u shouldn't draw attention so much to ur body. you obviously love the attention they give you, or u would not talk about it on yahoo.
2007-03-24 15:40:59 · answer #10 · answered by hannah h 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋