My nephew is 1/2 Middle Eastern Indian and 1/2 white...father isn't around b/c of racist parents?

Question

What are your thoughts on this? Do you know of someone else in this situation? His parents hate white people. They demanded a paternity test. (She had one and it was his of course). He was granted partial custody but never acted on it. Why? Because his parents say they will quit financially supporting him (they are worth a few million) and they will disown him. So he chooses not to be a father. He is a support check to his son. That's it. Isn't it sad that people can create children...pay a few bucks a week and go on with their lives. The father actually admitted that he JUST told a few of his friends that he had a son. Kaeden (his son) is almost 3!!! Who would deny this cutie?

http://i105.photobucket.com/albums/m234/beckster5000/havingfun2.jpg

http://i105.photobucket.com/albums/m234/beckster5000/kae.jpg

Oh and here is the father who is out partying while my sister is struggling to provide for her son with his measly 65 dollars a month support check.

http://www.myspace.com/ravdawg

ONE more addition...this is the house he lives in:

http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=viewImage&friendID=28128018&albumID=0&imageID=2259749

Answer 1

Hate to say it, but in some ways it's best for the little guy. Imagine knowing that your Grandparents dislike you...I don't like using the word hate. Or, what happens if the donor decides to actually be a father...marries someone who the loving parents approve of...she puts the breaks on the relationship with his son...and he leaves?
Believe me, it's soooo hard to explain to a little one why his daddy isn't coming around anymore.
I'd nail the son of a ***** for more support. $65...are you kidding me?!? The best thing you can do for your sis is just be there for her. She's going to need you. It's also devastating for her...she feels helpless for not being able to provide one of the things that is his birth right. It's really scary being both Mommy & daddy.