Earlier in the year, there was this guy I really liked and I was sure he liked me. We sat by each other in a class but it was very awkward. One day, he decided to move away from me to a different spot, but he would still act in a way that showed he liked me. this sounds weird but I am serious. This confused me a lot. To make a long story short, I wrote him a note about because it would have been really weird talking to him about it. I basically said that I liked him and wish he would sit by me again.
When he got the note, he showed it to a lot of people and said some not so nice things about me. I haven't had anything to do with him since and I don't even look at him.
This happened about 5 months ago. For quite some time, he has been trying to act nice to me but I ignore him. From the stuff he does, I know that he does like me and he knows i'm mad at him. Even though I don't like him nearly as much as I used to, i still have somewhat of a thing for him.
what should i do?
2007-03-24 14:55:39 · 5 answers · asked by BeachBabe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we don't talk to each other though. he knows i am really mad at him. i totally ignore him and this has caused him to try and get my attention in the funniest ways- like wearing a sweatshirt of a college team/state that he knows i really like in order for me to look at him. it's so funny and i know he does this on purpose. stupid i know. can anyone tell me what this really means?? I am so confused and i don't know how to act around him. the more i ignore him, the more he does it.
2007-03-24 15:47:20 · update #1
If he genuinely liked you he would have kept your note private. If he was worthy of even your friendship he would have kept the note private. He cannot be trusted and will let you down again. Look for a mature person, not a jerk.
2007-03-24 14:59:42 · answer #1 · answered by selkhet62 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are willing to take a risk, go for it. Maybe he had to say those things around his friends because they are immature and dont understand the girlfriend thing. If he acts like he like you and wants more, he probably does. Follow what your heart, but listen to your mind.
2007-03-24 15:01:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to give him a second chance, approach him directly and ask him why he acted that way the first time around. If you like what he says, tell him. If not, drop him like a bad habit. And if you do give him the second chance and he blows it, NO third chance!
2007-03-24 15:21:33 · answer #3 · answered by danl747 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest and talk to him....tell him what he did before hurt you...Sometimes guys dont think...they need to be reminded that we all have feelings. And tell him..lets stop playing games and just be friends. BC every great relationship starts w/ a friendship!
2007-03-24 15:02:39 · answer #4 · answered by oshellbell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your heart
2007-03-24 14:58:39 · answer #5 · answered by Michael b 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋