so i know a girl getting married to this guy. she has cheated on him twice since the engagement & claims to love this NEW guy with ALL of her heart. she doesnt love her fiance, and doesnt want to marry him, but the way things are going...that june date is fast approaching. my question is, would you tell the finace somehow or someway w/out him knowing who i am what she has been doing? i know if i was getting married, i wouldnt want to marry someone who was cheating on me. so if you had this chance, what would you say or NOT say.
FYI - if they broke up, she would be RUINED financially with just buying a house and depending on two incomes instead of just one.
2007-03-24 14:55:08 · 4 answers · asked by brianju 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi There, Yes you should tell the girl's finace that she has been cheated on him 2 times. It is the right thing to do is to tell the girl's finace. Good luck on it. Be brave. God will help you out with this. God loves you. God bless you. And God would be pround of you if you do tell the Finace.
2007-03-24 15:06:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that the fiance has the right to know what he is getting himself into - but you should only say something if you are absolutely sure you know the facts. No spreading of rumours that could or could not be true. If you have evidence of her infidelity however, then by all means, inform the poor sod. And never mind about doing it anonymously, either.
2007-03-24 15:01:29 · answer #2 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She'll eventually hang herself, but if you feel strongly about this, let him know somehow. He deserves to know what kind of person he's marrying. She shouldn't have bought a house with someone she was not sure that she could be happy with.
2007-03-24 15:07:40 · answer #3 · answered by TNP Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yikes!!!! I would stay out of it
2007-03-24 14:59:01 · answer #4 · answered by hotstuff 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋