i want a bf for more than just physical pleasure, for an actual loving spiritual relaionship, but i'm afraid because it seems that young couples these days (18-19 yrs old like me) just want mutual masturbation/sex and that at some point during a relationship everyone wants some action, right? but i feel like it';s degrading, at least do do it right away at the start of a rleationship. pls doont call me a loser i just want to know. if i have a bf, do i have to at least give oral or something for us to stay together, because thats so stupid!! i mean, sure, i have a sex drive and all but i feel like all i hear lately is just head/fingering/.head/more head etc...and i dont see the whole fuss. what can a couple do to satisfy each other but wait a bit before all the sexual stuff? what are some ways we can show our love?
2007-03-24 14:50:59 · 2 answers · asked by . 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
For us men, it is absolutely important. If it is ok there then it is ok elswhere, and that is the fact. Take it or leave it. Believe me.
All the best!/
2007-03-26 04:37:51 · answer #1 · answered by Ebby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T EVER DO ANYTHING YOU DON'T FEEL READY FOR. A real respectful guy will wait until you are ready. They are out there. Love isn't all about sex (though it is fun).
2007-03-24 15:21:52 · answer #2 · answered by minime 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋