Why did she do this to me?

Question

I asked a girl that i know out on a date as friends about 3 weeks ago (march 2nd) . She said yes and seemed really excited and we agreed on the friday after (march 9th). On march 9th though when i saw her at school, she told me that a party she was going to started earlier than she thought and suggested the friday after that (march 16th). When i talked to her on monday march 12, she told me that she had a drama festival to go to and asked if sunday march 25 would be OK. Once again i said yes. After that, she started to actively avoid me. Taking it as a sign that she needed space, I made no attempts to talk with her and just smiled when i saw her. She smiled back each time, but said nothing. So on friday march 23rd, i asked her if she was still up to go out on sunday. at first she tried to ignore me, then she just shook her head and said "I don't think so, Sorry." and very quickly left.
What did i do wrong?

Answer 1

This exact same thing happened to my son. All I can say, is that she was playing with your feelings...I don't know if she was really doing it on purpose or not...but it hurts just the same. You can be glad that you did not go out with her. There are some girls out there that you are better off not dating. I doubt it is anything you did wrong.

Answer 2

You probably didn't do anything wrong. it sounds like she''s avoiding you maybe she 's not interested and doesn't have the balls to just come out and say it. If i were you i'd just forget if she's interested she'll come around but for now just move on because being a female there's just no telling what all she may be going through or maybe she's not single and trust me it isn't cool to go out with the opposite sex when your in coupledom

Answer 3

u did nothin wrong NOTHING!!! dont let her make u feel like u did sothing wrong becuz u didnt
she seems like she was scared 2 go out with u maybe she didnt want anything happening just kept making up excuses
and seems like she was trying 2 do that on purpose
makin some joke with her friends ( like i keep on changing plans on him @ the lst second like she did ) it's better than not showning up ( she atleast told u) but still
im sorry but nobody needs 2 be treated like that

i hoped i helped out hun
good luck
-andi

Answer 4

It's not you..
It sounds like she's a real *****
she should have just said she did'nt wanna go out with you
Move On
You will find someone better than her

Answer 5

You didn't do anything wrong. She did. She lead you on. She obviously had no intention of going out with you. It's possible that her mother may have had something to do with it too. Just move on to someone else.

Answer 6

you didnt do anything wrong. i think she just changed her mind. she may have found someone else she like better and wanted to be with them. if you know u didnt actively do anything to make her act this way towards you then dont worry about it. you deserve someone else who will treat you right. go out and find them.

Answer 7

i am so sorry =[
you didnt do anything. maybe she likes someone else or doesnt think of you the same way YET. good luck and i hope you get to go on a date with her soon =[

Answer 8

You probably didnt do anything. I am a girl and most girls do that. maybe she just came out of a relationship and shes not ready to date just yet.

Answer 9

it wasnt you at least you took the first step maybe she doesnt like boys or maybe she just wants to be friends but doesnt want to hurt your feeling there could be 100s of reasons but dont let it get you down just think of it as practice

Answer 10

You didn't "get" that her excuses were, in girl-talk, statements that she didn't want to go out with you. She hoped you'd give up and not require she refuse your offer of a date.