So this guy that I loved a lot and been with for 1 year broke up with me and said that we'll be friends, then a week later he stopped taking my calls... I was very worried because he was depressed before breaking up with me and I wanted to stand by him and support him. a couple of weeks later I started sending text messages(over a few days), asking why he didn't want to be friends with me, he ignored me. I waited a month and couldn't take it anymore I sent him messages again, I even told him that I was still in love and that I just wanted to know what's up with his job (his biggest problem) he ignored me... a month later I put my number on private (hid it..) and called to hear him say hello (I missed him a lot) he knew t was me somehow.. He hung up and next day he called and started yelling telling me: NEVER EVER CALL ME AGAIN OR TEXT, LEAVE ME ALONE ETC...
I loved him and that's why I couldn't let go so easily. But him, will he think I was desperate ?
2007-03-24 14:45:17 · 7 answers · asked by leave me alone 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you sound very sweet wanting to support him and stuff. you dont deserve to be treated like that. i would move on and put it in the past. start fresh with someone that really cares for you and wants to be with you and don't let the past affect it. good luck.
2007-03-24 14:56:18 · answer #1 · answered by varsfootball44 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he will think you are desperate. You want to talk to him because he absolutely refuses to have contact with you. It's just never going to happen that you get a good answer so stop right this minute and never call or get in touch with the guy again! I know it is really hard because you remember that he said you two would be friends. He was wrong to be a jackass and basically lie about that. But he is sending you clear certain messages to stay away from him and you must. It's like giving catnip to a cat when he does this to you - I know it makes you persistent but there will never be any relief - it is over. Done. Finished. So get distracted, see friends, stay away from places he might be, start dating again as soon as you can, even if it is just a person who seems not your type - just to get out there and be dating again. You can do it. It feels like there is unfinished business but believe me, it is finished. Finito. Finis.
2007-04-01 09:07:51 · answer #2 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-03-24 14:53:24 · answer #3 · answered by dwforce 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You tried throwing yourself at him. Now try something else. It'll be hard but you have to stay away from him. In the unlikely event he comes back, remain aloof but cordial. Refuse his first attempt to date you without closing the door entirely. Since it's a long shot he's coming back, go find another. But next time, don't reveal too much to the guy.
2007-04-01 12:09:29 · answer #4 · answered by jackbutler5555 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear , it's a big deal for a man not to find a decent Job that he always wanted specially if he has it's qualifications , so i know he is so depressed , and he don't want to put him self into commitments with you cuz he might not be able to marry you at last , i know he doesn't want to make you unhappy
2007-03-24 15:24:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2007-04-01 14:06:52 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, you pushed too far and now there is little hope.
2007-03-24 14:48:33 · answer #7 · answered by beermanmdg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋