i'm not that skinny and guys always flirt with me . why do they not ask me out . is it because i'm not skinny. is that what guys want at that age???
2007-03-24 14:41:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
so what ! maybe they like hangning out with you & you are cool :)
2007-03-24 14:46:06 · answer #1 · answered by mommaknowsbest 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honestly think that you should not be worried about whether you are fat or not because it will only make you unhappy. If the guys flirt with you, then that must mean that you have a great personality and smile and any other great qualities. Most guys don't care about whether you are skinny, fat, purple, or alien... they like you for who you are. And so what if you are single, you should be happy that you aren't tied down with one person. Being single can be greta because you can have as much fun with whoever you want to have fun with. On the plus side, you are 14 and you still have your whole life ahead of you. I'm 16 and i'm single, but i am really happy because i hang out with all my friends(girls and guys) and basically have a great time. And i'm absolutely positive that if a guy doesn't want to ask you out because of how you look, if i were you i wouldn't even spend my time worrying about it. You deserve much more than that. Trust me on this, guys don't ask girls out because of how they look, and if they do they are jerks.. if you want to talk more, just email me. I'm here to help ... good luck!!!
2007-03-24 21:51:20 · answer #2 · answered by Rose 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This question is hard. I'm not skinny either but i'm not fat. Sorry to tell you but most guys do want girls to be skinny. But, that's not the kind of guy you would want to date. I have lots of friends who are very big and guys date them all the time. You need a guy who is smart, nice, funny, and sweet and most of all, dosnt care about your apperiance. Are you happy with who you are? If ur not, then go on a diet! Don't starve yourself like, only eat one meal a day. But cut low on the junkfood and exercise. Get more active with guys. When they flirt with you, flirt back. Get to know them and maybe after awhile, it will turn into a relationship!
2007-03-24 21:48:11 · answer #3 · answered by Maddie H 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Girl you should not be worried about that at your age. You are only 14 you still have sometime to start dating and dont worry about if ur skinny or not eventually you will find someone who is going to like you for you and not for what you look like. Cheer up theres plenty of fish in the sea
2007-03-24 21:46:40 · answer #4 · answered by Star 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe they just flirt because you're a fun person and they love to talk to you. it's nothing about your size. if it is then those guys aren't worth your time. even non-skinny people can be beautiful. maybe they see that in you. you're lucky. most girls in my school who flirt with guys are the stick figure, puffy lipped, tight top and mini-mini-skirt wearing girls that have an iq of 10. lol.
2007-03-24 21:51:03 · answer #5 · answered by juby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if guys dont like bigger girls, their loss! if u have 2 b skinny 4 them 2 like u then u dont want them 2 like u, they will end up bing jerks and will break ur heart! u need 2 find a guy who likes u 4 u!
2007-03-24 22:19:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are shy at that age and maybe not too ready to ask out girls at all. You're young, just be friends with lots of people.
2007-03-24 21:45:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no,no, no. Guys our age are just very immature (I'm thankful I'm not one) and just dont really know what they feel. Live a little while longer while ur single; It wont last much longer!!!!
2007-03-24 21:45:36 · answer #8 · answered by Yep 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give yourself time. Focus on your life. You will change a lot both mentally and physically. Trust me.
2007-03-24 21:45:24 · answer #9 · answered by WISEMAN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually girls should be skinny and boys should be fleshy, then only bothside will be banlanced every time.
And the girls like the plumpy boys and inversely the boys like skinny girls. its the fact.
2007-03-24 21:53:25 · answer #10 · answered by deepak k 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no its because guys are LOSERS and all they do is talk,talk,talk and no action trust me I bet your beautiful and by the way it shouldnt matter what size you are that matters is the connection between the two of you
2007-03-24 21:47:19 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋