should we break up?

Question

I have been with he same guy for 3 years. I have my own place he still lives at home. I want more by now...like an engagment ringor something. Is that to much to want. He told me to be patient. He says he wants to marry me, but he wants to take it slow......I dont like it. Isnt 3 years long enough to know? Maybe we should go our separate ways? Please help

Answer 1

Do you love him??? If you do, wait.

Answer 2

don't rush into anything, marrage isnt a bed of roses.im sure he wants to marry you, even if its 2 more years from now dont give up what you two have, and thats eachother,love and compasion. jus be patient and everything would be ok im sure everything would work out.

good luck!

Answer 3

i think 3 yrs is long enough but you have to realize for some apparent reason men are to scared to commit ...maybe you need to give him alittle more time ...if he is not doing anything wrong in the relationship wait on him don't give up

Answer 4

Just do what you think is right, Your feelings matter more than ours, And 3 years is along time, So give him a month or so, but then do what you think is right...

Answer 5

Yes, three years should be plenty of time for him to figure out how he feels.
Good Luck!

Answer 6

Push him hard
then wait
let him come out of his comfortable zone
then still no action
move away

Answer 7

i think you should take a break ( but dont break up) from him for a while and then go back to him and try Agin
sorry if that doesn't make sence!!

Answer 8

maybe you should wait til april and then if not I'd say yes

Answer 9

i think you should break up with him but give him a week or so first.

Answer 10

yep