Is it normal for a 16-year old male to have relationships with an 14-year old female?

Question

Both are attractive :))

- I live in a country where the relationships aren't really controlled so it depends on myself.
- I'm going on 16.
- I don't only mean sexual relationships, I mean will it be okay psychologically?

Thanks.

Answer 1

Yes. In fact it's considered perfect. Females mature faster than males so a 14 year old guy would be too young for a 14 year old girl.

On top of that, they are both minors. Perfect!

Answer 2

Are you going on 17? I was once in a similar relationship. I was about 14 and he was going on 18. During the moment no one could have told me what I was doing was incorrect and no one could tell him, but looking back now it wasn't the smartest decision. I found that the older guy took advantage of the fact that I was younger. If you are simply trying to sleep with her I suggest you find someone your own age. If you really do like her and respect her I don't see anything too wrong, but if it does last and you turn 18 it will be an illegal relationship which could land you in jail. Is it worth it? What does she think? What do you honestly think? There is a reason as to why you have asked the question. You yourself may feel that it might not be appropiate?

Attraction doesn't justify the age diff., but I can see how it would fog you from the reality of the situation.

Good Luck and I hope you do what makes you and her happy... in the long run.

-Shiva

Answer 3

I agree - while it's normal to have those feelings (regardless of being attractive or not), you both are too young to understand the implications of going this direction. Especially her being only 14 - which sounds like she's in 8th grade probably (maybe 9th). You are barely able to even drive and yet you are going to tackle something like this just because you feel like you should more than likely. You might want to wait for someone you truly have real feelings for (more than likely this isn't it again since she is only 14).

Let's put it this way - if you and her aren't able to go buy birth control control together (or you both sit down with both set of parents and asking that she go on the pill - which means yes, letting the parents know - in addition to using condoms for disease purpose), then you definitely are too young for this right now. Think about it. There are consequences neither one of you are thinking about right now. Disease and pregnancy could be one of them, along with knowing you both did this at such a young age.

Answer 4

14 300 and sixty 5 days olds are too immature to understand the actual which skill of intercourse, and positively should not be doing it. sixteen 300 and sixty 5 days old men think of approximately intercourse ninety 9% of the time... does not look like a stable element to me, and of direction this is going to alter the dating - intercourse differences each and every thing no rely what your age. If I have been a sixteen year old guy, i does not want to get entangled with women youthful than me. i could want somebody a minimum of my age if not older. Too many detrimental issues can ensue whilst babies play like adults.

Answer 5

Yes, but don't mess up like my friend. He dating a 14 year old girl when he was 16. and then another when he was 17, 18 , 19.
Last I saw of him he was on "To catch a Predator" no ****. I feel real sorry for his parents. It's ok for now but don't make a habit of it. ;)

Answer 6

yes is okay, if your were a matured 16/17 year old and dating a tiny 13 year old who just started puberty then it would be a little different. as long as you are attracted to her on a personal level and not just looking for a booty call then it is ok

Answer 7

are you mature enough to be a 16 or 17 year old DADDY? wrap your wacker before you attack her!! and even that is not fool proof. If her Parents do not agree with your relationship then as soon as your 18 your going up the river for statutory RAPE. and for the rest of your life you will be labeled as a sex offender...

THINK ABOUT THAT!!!!!!!

Answer 8

Yes, as long as both of you know the guide rules.. considered to be innocent and to gradually lose this attribute through maturity by gaining knowledge of the adult
Enjoy each others company with the understanding of mature friendship

Answer 9

Its normal as long as the relationship is countained to a level that BOTH of you are emotionaly mature enough to handle. Other wise no its not normal.

Answer 10

It is not unusal. Lot of times doesn't work exsecially when 1 goes off to collage But you are not weird. And i do not think you are in the danger of going to jail. depending on your state.