i'm 23yrs old and i've seen my mom go through some pretty crappy relationships and well my mom blames my dad for that. they had love life that would make married woman blush but my grandfather didnt approve. the day my dad went to confess his love for my mom and desire to make her his wife my grandfather sat in his chair with a rifle in his had and gave my dad two choices "leave alive or leave in a body bag". well my dad turn and ran the other way. years later i got in contact with my dad again and well to make a long story short a fool could see that the love they had has only gotten stronger over the years but the two of them are to scared of rejection to say anything. so my question is, should i put my nose in their business to help push things along? i hate watching the two of them, they seem so miserable but the wont talk about it either!***note*** they talk on a weekly basis about me and thier grandkids and other things but they wont open up thier hearts!
2007-03-24 14:31:27 · 10 answers · asked by thinkofmealwayslver 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
In this case I would say "go ahead and stick your nose in her business", usually that wouldn't be my advice, but you gave enough details. Go for it and Good Luck!!
2007-03-24 14:38:06 · answer #1 · answered by clbinmo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your mother may be frustrated you're still living at home, unless of course you have a reason for staying there. Is she ill; are you taking care of her? If not, move out. If this is a sudden thing from your mom, I would just blame her frustration but I wouldn't make excuses from her. But you're 34, so you shouldn't really expect your mom to look at you when you're unhappy and to go do everything for you under the sun. Maybe she's trying toughen you up for whatever reason. My father was as nasty as can be when I was younger but that was his reasoning. All I can say is, you need to consider moving out. Even if your salary is poor, you can find a way to manage and be on your own.
2016-03-29 03:02:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi !!!
It is lovely that you care for them both, but to tell you the truth don't intervene, in this!!!
If so happens that you force the situation and it doesn't work or things get ugly, guess who is the one they are going to blame till they day they depart!!!
Sweetie, is being way too long already and probably you don't no half of the real story on how this went!!!
I suggest, out of the respect you own to your parents to let nature take it's course. When you force things, some times they break. And then it is going to be on you!!!
This is my suggestion, but you need to take your own decision.
GOOD LUCK, & HAPPY LIFE
A.Z.
2007-03-24 14:42:49 · answer #3 · answered by Alliv Z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes help them along. they need to know they still feel that love and its true love if it has lasted this long. Your grandfather was wrong for what he did and your mom should have stood up to him. Talk to them both and tell them to admit how they feel for each other and give love another chance.
2007-03-24 14:36:42 · answer #4 · answered by bbinqueens33 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're seeing what you want to see. "their love has only gotten stronger" and yet they won't talk to each other? I think your perceptions are way off.
Let your Mom and Dad handle their own relationship. They are old enough to make their own decisions (and sometimes they just don't match what their child wants).
2007-03-24 14:36:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stay out of it. She is a big girl, old enough to make her own decisions in life.
2007-03-24 14:37:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could set them up on a blind date. Or invite both of them over to your house for a little get together. Believe me if it is ment to be it will be pray for them.
2007-03-24 14:37:20 · answer #7 · answered by just me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to both of them and make sure they feel the same way. If it is true love then it is meant to be
2007-03-24 14:35:30 · answer #8 · answered by roxy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Stay out of it.
2007-03-24 14:35:49 · answer #9 · answered by Solar Ball 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it!
2007-03-25 04:16:32 · answer #10 · answered by shawn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋