What do you all think about someone with the 45 year old going nowhere blues?

Question

I am almost 45 years old, work 7 days a week for minimum wage and seem to be going nowhere. I'm not feeling sorry for myself, but sometimes I have to wonder if there's not an easier way?

Answer 1

Work 5 days a week, go out with friends. There are many cheap things to do. I was 45 and had a heart attack. Its been 3 years and I have a second chance and I am living my life to the fullest. I can't afford to travel so I camp. I walk, bike, read, enjoy family. If your single go out meet people and chat anywhere. Be sociable. Enjoy what is left of your years. Change jobs, do a make over of yourself. Go out to eat. I am married and sometimes go by my self. I love to shop myself too. I use to be a work aholic but never again. I work a new part time job with the public and I talk to everyone. Try going to church. If you don't have one go any where the doors are open to all.

Answer 2

life is a b*tch and then you die or at least that's what they tell me. Also that the reality of life is that life sucks! Well i think that those two only apply to the sorry Mother_f*ckers that give up. Your life is yours and yours alone. Don't wait for some one or something to come live your life for you. Get up and go LIVE. Do things that enlighten your mind, body and spirit. Just because you work 7 day a week dose not mean you cant find time for yourself. No life never gets any ease but don't buckle under the perisher get up and do something

Answer 3

You only live once and if your not happy doing what you do it is never to late to change!here where im living a 65 year old just became a nurse! Your life is completely what you want it to be! i would say figure what you want to do and go for it! good luck

Answer 4

You chose to ask for help among the sufferers of mental illness. Perhaps there is more to your story. I suggest that we will be most happy when we are among those who are like ourselves .