why do guys perfer skinny girl over med size girls i use to be heavy now skinny and more guys want me i think?

Question

size shouldnt matter

Answer 1

it doesnt matter.... some people dont like skinny girls cuz they're too skinny (like those models that show their ribs because they got no meat on their bones)... its good you lost weight and you probably changed significantly.. which could be why guys noticed you now... it was a good change..
honestly.. i prefer medium sized girls with a little meat on their bones..

Answer 2

well, guys just think that they deserve everything perfect. I've noticed that size really isnt that big of an issue. Height is a big concern. I have a hard time finding a guy that likes tall girls because they feel like they will be less "manly" if they are with a tall girl. I'm a soft teddy bear on the inside.

Answer 3

Girl I used to be a size 6 before having twins..now Im a size 12 and it seems that I get way more attention that I did before also. Females w/ curves is more sexier to a man than a woman that looks like a 12 yr old boy..Well I think so. Love who you are not what you look like.

Answer 4

Today's society dictates that being skinny is beautiful. Most guys are programmed by what the media says. There are probably a minority of guys who think for themselves and see beauty in alot of different ways. I agree with you that size shouldn't matter, but unfortunately it usually does.

Answer 5

Because the 'fashion' is for skinny right now, and boys do not have enough of a firm opinion of their own to pick what they really like and choose what is seen as fashionable. For example, in India rounder woman were preferred. Now they are becoming more westernized in their ideals and prefer women who look more European and are skinnier.
Also it is important to boys (whatever their age) to be able to show off so they want to prove they can get whatever is considered sexy by the media. Big boobs even if fake, skinny bodies even if their ribs show,etc.
Skinny bodies can be attractive, so can medium and even heavy bodies to a real man, not to boys.

Answer 6

You're right -- size shouldn't matter. In a perfect world, it wouldn't matter. However, the fact is that it does matter.

A couple of things influence this, but one thing is that people tend to be more sexually attracted to healthy people, and it's healthier to be thin/slim than overweight. Another thing is that all of the images of "beautiful people" we see are usually skinny (sometimes unhealthily so!), so that's what we think of as beautiful. Anyway, I guess that's my answer.

Answer 7

Guys only want that because the would rather be seen with a Cover Girl look a like girlfriend so that they would look good to their friends and other people. (Depending on what kind of person he is, if he needs anger management then he would like a smaller girl to push around so that if you were heavy set there's no way they would try that so that's why they wouldn't consider talking to you).

Answer 8

Curvy girls are far more attractive. Skinny girls look sickly and look like the need to eat something. Of course too many curves are a bad thing as well.

Answer 9

Sorry.. size.. and looks matter.. what cave are you living in?

Really.. whens the last time you were attracted to some fugly 60 year old bald guy with a beer gut that stood 5 ft 2 in at 300 Lbs..?? gimme a break (well unless he had millions of $ we all know that changes everything)

True.. guys are shallow (I admitt it) Girls are too.. just admit it...

What you think you are entitled to date a rock star when you let yourself go to hell?? i think not chickeys.. To many other waiting in the wings that didnt let themselves go to hell... It was YOUR CHOICE not ours eh? So whats with blameing US? BS...

Lemme think (follow me on this) Umm super model? or fat dumpy chick that never even learned how to do makeup? what do you think???

Personally i dont give a rats ass if yer thin or fat.. if yer happy I'm fine with that.. but i'm only gonna sleep with what i find attractive... and if you dont care.. why should I? I'll still have lunch with ya and talk to ya in public though.. no problem with that...


Size shouldnt matter... SURE... OK start dating 500lb short old guys then get back to me on that... ****** Please

Answer 10

I prefer more heavy girls. But...that's only because there is less competition, and their standards are usually lower...anyways if you can get girls to agree that size doesn't matter, I'll see what I can do with my peoples.