and your own home is not a place you can get away from the blood sucking vultures, what can you do for peace of mind?
2007-03-24 14:05:40 · 13 answers · asked by Thumbs down me now 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I live in my own House. but they come in regaurdless of what i say!
2007-03-24 14:09:58 · update #1
You do what any other person would do once they get pushed into a corner: you push back. We're all human and we can only take so much. One day, you'll have enough of whatever is going on and you'll decide its enough. You will put your foot down and tell all/whoever you need to tell - how you feel about things because its obvious you're bothered by it. Feeling like you're trapped and/or in a prison (I know) doesn't feel good. Nothing will never change for sure, if you don't do something about it. And when I say something - I mean by putting your foot down and stating how you feel.
2007-03-24 14:18:16 · answer #1 · answered by apache_lizz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find a place away from your house ( further than across the street) that is peaceful enough for u 2 relax. Bring a CD player or ipod/ mp3 so u can listen 2 music that u like.
Escape 2 your place.
2007-03-24 21:10:56 · answer #2 · answered by Gavin F 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It must be evident to you why you are being attacked. The thing to do is to eliminate the reason they are attacking you. You need to confront them and let your thoughts and/or reasons be known and do not be timid in doing so. Remember, your home is just that...your home and it is maybe more yours than theirs. Don't let anyone run you out of your home for any reason but confront those who are attacking you and settle the issue one way or the other.
2007-03-24 21:12:08 · answer #3 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Place a note on your front door explaining your desire to be alone or mention that you have an especial guess in your home and wish to be alone with the person. Buy a puppy and train it as he grows older to protect you. Trust me no one likes to visit a home with an angry dog.
God Bless
2007-03-24 21:15:33 · answer #4 · answered by tony 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mediate or go to the park and find a nice place under a tree to spend some quiet time.
2007-03-24 21:09:54 · answer #5 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to them. Find out what their concerns are. If they won't share.. quietly put a lock on your door along with a sign that says " Let me know when you want to talk about it" Love you, Your kid
2007-03-24 21:15:10 · answer #6 · answered by mom 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop letting them in! If they have a key, change your locks. Family can make you sicker than anyone else. Refuse to have contact with them until they can learn to respect you.
2007-03-24 21:14:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You didn't give your age, if old enough .. move out, if not old enough then can you spend more time with friends and stay away from the family?
Good Luck to you..
2007-03-24 21:11:23 · answer #8 · answered by clbinmo 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell all unpleasant guests to leave, your home is your haven, anyone causing you trouble must go--so call the police, people need to learn to behave as guests, not tyrants.
2007-03-24 21:09:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move out.
2007-03-24 21:08:29 · answer #10 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋