Ok so here's the story...
Theres this guy who'se one of my best friends and I like him alot. I finally got the courage to tell him and he said that he's not sure if he likes me back he has never had a crush and he dosen't know. He says that sometimes he has a crush on me but he dosen't wanna make the wrong decision. We go to the movies nearly every weekend. Sometmes he treats it like a date or sometimes he treats it like a plain old outing with a friend. I have trouble figuring this out sometimes. We also have lots of fights. Were argueing one minnute and the next were laughing our heads off. This is the danger zone. If my timing is a little off with my flirting he totally freaks out and i have to be quick with a punchline as if it was a joke. I also have trouble telling if he's flirting or just plainly having fun. I NEED HELP!
2007-03-24 13:44:43 · 7 answers · asked by Sadie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that you need to keep this relationship, on a completely platonic level. Why should you have to be on your toes, and be ready "to have a quick punchline", when your friend is so unpredictable. I think if you seriously dated, this would be a relationship that would be nerve racking for you, and stressful.You do not need to be wondering constantly, how he will react in any given situation, or at any given time. This friend can't even tell you if he likes you in a gf/bf capacity.Find a bf, who has confidence in himself, who knows how he feels, and is not on an emotional roller coaster ride Do yourself a favor, remain friends, before you start pulling your hair out over severe frustration.
2007-03-31 06:32:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay very friendly but remain unmistakenly aloof. You're presently too influenced by his moods. You've given him permission to play with your mind by your flexibility. It's time for you to turn the tables. Say no every once in a while on going to the movies. Make a vague excuse why you're not going this weekend. He's got to understand what it would be like if you are not available to him.
2007-04-01 12:04:07 · answer #2 · answered by jackbutler5555 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, it sounds to me like you have it alot more together then him. What do you do when someone keeps dragging out their feelings, and dragging out their feelings until they are so hurt, it is really hard to trust the next boyfriend, not cool ! Good Luck and God Bless !!
2007-04-01 11:53:25 · answer #3 · answered by fuzzypetshop 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you kind of already are dating. Sounds like he's scared of commitment or just relationships in general. Best bet though keep him as a friend and keep on the man hunt. Who know eventually you two might just have that click?
2007-03-29 16:50:25 · answer #4 · answered by ~never again~ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My advice would be to just keep him as a friend and move on to liking someone else because you should be able to be your self and not have to be on your toes and make sure you do everything right
2007-04-01 13:14:43 · answer #5 · answered by totheleft_07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a guy who is willing to take a risk if i guy likes u he doesnt have to think about it he knows especially if u hang out with eachother alot
2007-03-24 13:52:03 · answer #6 · answered by Austin 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get an adventous guy one who is not afriad to take risk or action
2007-03-30 14:21:22 · answer #7 · answered by Inugurl3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋