i live in a suit...and my room mate had her boyfriend over...it waz really hot last night and i waz just in a bra and panties...well i thought i heard something, and i see him just staring at me, i confronted him, and he said he thougt he heard my phone ringing,(what a lie) do i tell my roomate...and i don't want her to think that i'm tryin to take her man or anything???
2007-03-24 13:42:21 · 18 answers · asked by Jessicca 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
today, i happened to see him at the mall,but he wasn't with my roomate,he says he was just picking up some stuff, then he asks me out for lunch, and i agree, thinking i can get a real answer about what he was doin in my room, he refused to talk about it. so leave, catch up with some friends, and then go home, i waz taking a shower and i hear someone come in, and it waz him, when i get out the shower, he's sitting on the couch, watching me as i walk by,so then i'm in my room putting lotion on, and i totally forgot to lock the door, he walks past and catches me butt naked, and just stares, well i didn't know he was watchin till i turned around, and he apologizes and leaves, this is really freaky, i told my roomate and she doesn't want to beleive me..i'm really freaked out, what do i do???
2007-03-26 09:27:11 · update #1
I am almost positive that you have a problem. Your question sounds fictitious, and unrealistic at best. I think you are baiting people into believing that this incident is actually true. I think you crave the need to be the center of attention. You either are an exhibitionist, or are narcissistic.
2007-03-31 07:17:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop testing out your screenplay for your new movie 'Sexy Roommates' on Yahoo Answers! You're acting like an idiot if what you say is true - and pretending to want this guy to explain himself while you parade around naked in your suite (not suit) in front of him. You're roommate is going to catch on and all hell is going to break loose. Then you'll have this untrustworthy guy who basically just wants to get laid and knows you're easy - and a roommate who will spread around the news that you are an untrustworthy 'rhymes with nut'. Try to find another roommate after that!
2007-04-01 08:59:51 · answer #2 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's see, you knew he was in the apartment; but, you slept in a bra and panties. You accepted a lunch date with him. When you took a shower, etc., forgot to lock the door - yea right! Why would your roommate think you wanted her man? Just tell her that you are a ****tease and her boyfriend has hormones.
2007-04-01 03:44:24 · answer #3 · answered by Gone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are the problem you are obviously leading him on. You said you forgot to lock the door so he walked past and saw you?? how about at least shutting the door! And why would you agree to lunch with him? If he asked you out for lunch that should have been all the answers you needed. My advise stop being a ho and leave your friends man alone
2007-03-31 20:09:28 · answer #4 · answered by purplecasinokitten 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Going out for lunch was a big mistake. Lock your room when he's around and stop giving him a chance to spy on you. And by all means tell your room mate if he continues.
2007-04-01 12:52:02 · answer #5 · answered by prettywoman_eks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell her for sure...but dont make a big deal out of it because she will assume you might be up to something and as you say trying to take her man.
I would mention it in passing, and let her make her own conclusions. If she has half a brain in her head she will realize that she has a slime ball on her hands.
PS. Lock your door if you can...that's creepy as hell. If it were me, he would have had a big hand print to explain to his GF.
2007-03-24 14:06:08 · answer #6 · answered by muse_10999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jessica,
I would ne honest with ur roommate. She has to realize that her boyfriend is a cheater. Do you think it would be better if she found out later in the relationship? You will save her alot of future pain if you talk to her about it now.
2007-04-01 13:43:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should definitely tell her. Is she leaving him there when she is not home. If these incidents have happened I think you two should come to an agreement for him to only be there when she is. And furthermore that is pretty messed up of her not to believe you.
2007-04-01 08:13:33 · answer #8 · answered by someadvice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be afraid! tell ur roommate rite away!!! or else it mite get worse. just tell her and she will talk to him. and next time, make sure to lock all doors and you should get a boyfriend so next time he does something like that you can say ''im taken. and i know you are too."
2007-04-01 06:14:15 · answer #9 · answered by musik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How could the guy help it? You were in your bra and panties. Next time wear something not so revealing when he's over.
2007-03-24 13:52:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋