i just wanted to know exactly how far will strippers go.. i wudnt mind if my husband went to strip clubs if i thought it was only stripping but how far do things go in lap dances? please give details love to hear both from guys and girls who are or were strippers..
2007-03-24 13:41:02 · 20 answers · asked by sena 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thanks for ur answers.. first of all i dont htink its ok for him to go to strippers but if i tell him he cant he'll prob do it behind my back besides they look at porn on the net so they see it anyway.. secondly i do trust him but u know how a lot of ppl have secret sexual desires well i duno.. how can u ever know what happens behind closed doors ..
2007-03-24 14:29:33 · update #1
oh by the way i do respect that for a lot of strippers its just a job but that doesnt speak for everyone. i know some that they absolutely love the attention and will do it just cos they have low self esteem.. it is a really good point though that it takes 2.. i guess this is a lose lose situation. i just think its funny how guys justify it by the fact that they are paying for it .. if i go get some and im not paying its cheating .. go figure!!
2007-03-24 14:35:51 · update #2
Lap dances are just that, and grinding. Some customers do try to get away with more touching than legal, as do some dancers, but this can get the club in trouble--private rooms are monitored by cameras to prevent things like this.
There is such a small number of dancers that are prostitutes...don't even worry about that.
2007-03-26 09:02:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It varies a lot depending on state/local laws and how diligently they are enforced, how classy the place is, how far the stripper herself is willing to go and how much money the man is willing or can be coaxed to spend.
The ultimate three primary limiting factors is how much money he'll spend, how badly she (the stripper) needs the money and how far she's willing to go to earn it. Other factors are the guys commitment to his woman, some level-or lack of-moral restraint and alcohol consumption.
That really sums it up. The graphic details aren't necessary.
2007-03-24 13:56:10 · answer #2 · answered by Leroy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends just like with anything else. You got strippers that go all the way and you have strippers that show up to work and wonder why they do not make money. I seen it all and everything in between.
2007-03-26 17:25:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The real question is: how far would your husband go? Strippers are all about one thing and one thing only: money. Lapdances..... are just that. Depending on the dancer and depending on whoever is getting the lapdance....is how far things will (or won't) go. It takes two sweety - its not just on the stripper. Nobody does what they (don't) want to do. Remember that okay?
2007-03-24 13:49:50 · answer #4 · answered by apache_lizz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on part of the laws of your state. Some states allow full nudity, others do not. Some allow tips to be directly placed on the stripper's person (where it's really easy to cop-a-feel) others do not, or only allow them to collect tips once they are dressed again. Then there are clubs which are less reputable than others and double as escort clubs. It all depends.
2007-03-24 13:45:14 · answer #5 · answered by SDTerp 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have never been a stripper but i watched this show once on like hbo aobut strippers and they arent supposed to touch or anything but some of them let them touch and some dont. the strippers were trying to get a way with a lot of **** and if they are quite a few in one room they could get a way with alot...SORRY
2007-03-24 13:44:51 · answer #6 · answered by Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More importantly do you trust your hubby to be faithful. Generally strippers will only tease the guys but there are also the more extreme strippers that will do anything for money.
So once again, do you trust your Hubby?
2007-03-24 13:46:07 · answer #7 · answered by Rustb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a classy place, all they do is grind the guy's crotch while topless, and the guy can only look, not touch. The seedier the place, the more they do, and the more the guy can do, right on up to going to a private room and ******* the guy senseless (and probably penniless).
2007-03-24 13:46:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he got money, then as far as he is willing to pay, and what the hell are you doing letting your husband go and see a stripper?! that would ruin my marriage! does he think that you arent enough or something? put some restraint on him!
2007-03-24 13:46:12 · answer #9 · answered by mary m 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some strippers could be classified as hookers.... thats all iam going to say. i would not tolerate my husband going. Would he let you go to a male strip club?
2007-03-24 13:44:05 · answer #10 · answered by R C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋