There's this guy I like and I'm 98% sure he was starting to like me too, he ask for my email and was hanging out with me more during class at lunch, but recently during class he's been ditching me so he can hang out with the 2 class gloths, and at lunch we hangs out with the hiper and (no offence) ditzy girl. Should I go goth or more ditzy to make him like me again, or just hope he'll like me for me when the goths graduate IN 2 YEARS!?!?!?!
2007-03-24 13:40:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hell no! Never change for anyone. If you feel like there are things you want to improve on then do it for yourself. Never for a man or anyone else. Don't let him take away what makes you, YOU. You're special and unique and if he doesn't like you for you, then he's not the one. Trust me.
2007-03-24 13:45:28 · answer #1 · answered by DRE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if your 98% percent sure that he likes you, maybe you should hold out for a while and see what happens. Start hanging around him alot more, and asking to go out somewhere. But dont make it a 1 on 1 date, try going with a group of friends, (that yall both know). And, im sure he may not like the goth people or that ditzy girl, but probably just trying to make friends. But if he starts to flirt, then maybe you should lay low. But, what im trying to say is, you really shouldn't change yourself for some boy. Chances are if he's blowing you off now, maybe if yall went out, he'd blow you off then. I bet there are alot of other boys out there in that school, that would love to spend time with you, and probably like you the way you are now. Try hanging with them. But if you still like that other guy, wait for him to see you for who you really are, not who you're trying to be. Trust me, boys love a girl who knows how to be herself.
~-~-~- Hope i helped.
love always,
a friendly someone =)
2007-03-24 21:03:18 · answer #2 · answered by jordansonlyluv 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Don't change who you are or pretend to be someone else to make someone like you. It's not worth it and they'll se through you. Definitely don't go goth because they look stupid and don't go ditzy b/c they ARE stupid. If someone doesn't like you for who you are, they are not worth it.
2007-03-24 20:44:19 · answer #3 · answered by Vexer D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one simple answer - NO! What happens when you all are no longer together? You going to stay Goth? Be yourself but always be your best self. Not someone that someone else wants you to be.
2007-03-24 20:45:12 · answer #4 · answered by JAZ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Omg, this question really hit home, just today I was thinking about being all skater because the guy i like is and now just reading your question i had an epiphany, no one should change themselves.
2007-03-24 20:46:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey! why should you change who you are to get some guy to like you? how fun would that be for you, trying to be what your not? for example you change what you like to eat to fish sticks and what movies you like to watch to sports documentaries (for examples) and then you actually start dating this guy. then he will always want to eat fish sticks while watching a documentary on sports! find a guy that likes you for what you both like.
i met my husband in elementary and were friends until 8th grade. we had everything in common and still do he is my best friend.
bottom line be yourself!
2007-03-24 20:49:24 · answer #6 · answered by crabybuttcute 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say wait for him to come to you. If he really likes you just the way you are then he will go after you. If he doesnt like you because the way you are now then he doesnt deserve you.There will be someone out there for you just wait. God has someone planned out for you.
2007-03-24 20:47:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELL NO.
Don't change for anyone ever at anytime or anywhere.
If he doesn't like you the way you are, it's not meant to be.
2007-03-24 20:43:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!! If he can't see you for what you are, you don't need him. Please don't change for some guy. You will never be happy with the result.
2007-03-24 20:45:06 · answer #9 · answered by biscuitperifrank 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no if he really loves u he should love u for who u r
2007-03-24 20:45:19 · answer #10 · answered by JAMiE S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋