how do u get over someone after likeing them for two years? how do u get rid of the heartache?
2007-03-24 13:23:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Heartache takes time, unfortunately.
To help I recommend getting out and volunteering to help others. When you help others you lift their spirits and it brings a smile to yours knowing you are helping someone who really needs it. You can feel it in your heart and you start to meet other people. It can be in a hospital, it can be reading to kids in a library, it can be just holding a door open for someone in your neighborhood that has their hands full, or even just saying hello to someone who looks like they just lost their whole world. You can volunteer at a local church or look up in your community at local volunteers that are needed in your area. My area has them under a local news station. You wouldn't believe how much better you feel when you do.
Also, try to stay away from areas where you frequented this person. You could also write letters to this person and tell them how you feel or felt about them, but never send them. Let them go. The sooner you let this person go, the sooner you will be able to let the next person God has in store for you. You will love someone in your future and will be grateful that you met this person and some good times with them and now you are ready for the next stage of your life. Be strong and reach out to someone when you need to talk. Hugs to you and God Bless.
2007-03-24 13:33:38 · answer #1 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time does NOT heal all wounds. Time just eases the pain. Go about your business. DO NOT look for another someone. Just breathe in - breathe out. Do it again. Do it again. Let your friends be your friends. Draw closer to God. Enjoy your life. Someone will come along someday. Don't rush it.
2007-03-24 13:28:16 · answer #2 · answered by onparadisebeach 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
.It takes time to develop a friendship or relationship. It will also take time to get over one. There is no time table so just let things happen as they may. Good Luck.
2007-03-24 13:34:25 · answer #3 · answered by saturn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no heartache for liking someone. there is for loving someone. decide what you feel understand why you cant have it them MOVE on
2007-03-24 13:26:30 · answer #4 · answered by aggadan 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
find someone new and better than the person before
2007-03-24 13:27:02 · answer #5 · answered by luckybuny07 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sorry to say if you loved them the pain wont go away.
2007-03-24 13:32:29 · answer #6 · answered by rtdigger183 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just think about how beautiful your best friend is and you will be OVER HIM!!!!! lol...luv ya chika
2007-03-26 05:52:14 · answer #7 · answered by inactive 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a new dude
2007-03-24 13:30:10 · answer #8 · answered by soccerstar101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋