Hi,
I met this girl a couple weeks ago at a club and she made eye contact with me and made her way towards me. I danced with her and by the end of the night we exchanged numbers. I called her up some days after and we started dating. By the 2nd day getting to know each other, she tells me she thinks she could be falling in love, and she wanted to see where things would go. By the 3rd day she changes her mind saying it wouldn't work right now, but she doesn't want to lose me as a friend.
We've been sleeping together, and things are really passionate, but she seems to want to still play around, she tells me she doesn't want relationship , but when I try to distance myself , she tells me she doesn't want out of her life.
She wants me to meet her sisters , and to buy her stuff and frankly speaking I don't think I should; I think that's a relationship thing. Sometimes I feel she is using me; but then not.
Why is she still around ? Why me ? I don't know what to do
2007-03-24 13:21:40 · 2 answers · asked by Piampri 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Apparently each of you is getting something from the other that each wants, and what each of you wants from the other is not necessarily the same thing. And, in addition to having some needs fulfilled (whether they be mutual needs or not), apparently each of you wants something different than what other has to offer.
So, if each of you can be satisfied with what you get from each other, and not let the desire for something more (or less) to over-ride that aspect, then you both can be satisfied with the way things are. But if either of you lets your longings or discomforts over-ride the satisfaction of the status-quo, then it is best not to suffer and get on with your lives apart from each other.
2007-03-24 13:37:18 · answer #1 · answered by G S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she probley dosen't like the title of relationship maybe she has been hurt too many times and dosen't want that. try going slow.
2007-03-24 13:26:27 · answer #2 · answered by punk girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋