I mean really how many men out there like big women? I've tried (still trying) to lose weight, been going out, etc. I feel lonely and hopeless.
2007-03-24 13:21:34 · 27 answers · asked by ~*StarryEyedSurprise*~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Weight problems are more often connected to emotional issues more so then health issues. I would try getting some counseling and try to fix what's wrong...then the weight should start to drop ...with an adjustment to your diet...You may not realize you have any emotional issues..... but thats why dieting rarely works up front.
And if you were here... I'd give you a big wet kiss.
2007-03-24 13:28:21 · answer #1 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, your not missing that much and don't believe the hype you see in TV or movies...
Start to love yourself, and then people will notice you...nothing worse than a sadsack. Ask your friends to help you improve your appearance, go to the "Y", get a hair cut and lighten your hair, go to Merle Norman's for a free makeover for the right colors, watch Joyce Meyers TV Show, Enjoying Everyday Life, to help you from the inside out, and give yourself a little more time. There are so many things to do in life, like take a hike, go swimming, go to a good movie, have a sleepover with some good friends just to laugh....don't let this bring you down. Before you know it, you'll feel better and people will be attracted to you for the right reasons. Best Wishes!!
2007-03-24 13:27:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give up hope, and don't be anorexic.
You will find a way through, I know it...
some people really just aren't built "little".
You probably have a lot of muscle under there, which is what is preventing the weight loss.
When you're trying to loose weight, you almost have to start out fat, and weak in order for it too work.
Try online dating. Some guy will fall in love with your personality.
Really.
2007-03-24 13:25:30 · answer #3 · answered by ♥besnazzy♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a big girl and I have had alot of men I've dated. Don't hide you should be proud of who you are. Big or skinny that's not the issue it's self confidence. You have to love yourself for other to love you as well. I bet your a wonderful woman, and some man would love to have you. Oh yeah lots of men love big girls, I get compliments everyday my fiance doesn't like it, but I do. So hold your chin up high and color the world a brighter color. Good luck
2007-03-24 13:30:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 19 almost 20 and never been kissed. But I am still ok with it. Plus there are some men that like big women. (I would kiss you if you wanted me too.)
2007-03-24 13:24:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are a few men out there who like big women, but to be honest they are a small minority.. you will be much happier if you lose weight.. I'm not trying to be mean.. I'm just being honest..
jogging is the ticket to losing weight.. I just got back from jogging a mile actually.. if you aren't up to jogging yet, try using something like Dance Dance Revolution to work up to jogging.. make up your mind to exercise every single day.. just decide that exercise is something that's as essential to your survival as eating.. technically in the long-run it is essential to your survival..
2007-03-24 13:28:12 · answer #6 · answered by Byakuya 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its ok dont worry to much about not being kissed you are probably just not looking for the right kind of guy and not all big guys go for big girls i know a lot of skinny guys that would rather go out with a bigger girl trust me i know how you feel i was 17 before i got my first real kiss
2007-03-24 13:27:44 · answer #7 · answered by stars52006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's sad how today's standard is depicted in magazine covers and in television. Plain and simple, sex sells. It shouldn't be that way. Because, there are people out there, such as yourself, who has a lot to offer, but is not given a second look. That's mean. Plain and simple, MEN ARE PIGS!
2007-03-24 13:26:35 · answer #8 · answered by facetofacerules 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a chunky girl not to big not to small! i hate it everyone says it doesn't matter, but it does to me! they don't know what its like to not fit into the cool clothes and be all skinny as heck! go out with a guy friend, and get drunk then kiss him, well at least get him drunk! Besides its whats on the inside that counts, and its more to love, like me!!!
2007-03-24 13:27:34 · answer #9 · answered by ~It's A Boy *Kaiden Avery*~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who cars?! my advice is go on a dating website ( many are free the first time). guys on those sights are usually very nice, and you can send personality quizzes etc. once you find the right guy to go on a date with, they will have already seen your profile( real picture included) and i guarantee you will get kissed!.you dont need to "go out" to find guys. you can go onto these sights and KNOW you will go on dates. after that its only a matter of time.
freddie
2007-03-24 13:27:19 · answer #10 · answered by fb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋