My friend is a very sweet person and started dating a very controlling guy a year ago. They just got engaged (with no ring; he just did it to keep her)! He does not want her to go oyt with any friends.. work and home and his dinner cooked every night! He has so much control over her. She is stressed because of his constant put downs and arguments. She always calls me crying. I don't know what to say.
Everytime I see her, she has lost another 5 lbs or so. She went from 145 to about 98lbs. She looks so sick! She is also always taking up for him when I say something negative about him!
2007-03-24 13:19:46 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell her to stop crying to you,if he is untouchable
2007-03-24 13:25:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She likes the dick. Or his drugs one of them keeps her there. Or maybe she just likes the thought of getting married. I would try to find out what it is keeping her there and then decide what to do after that.
2007-03-24 20:26:21 · answer #2 · answered by franksprung 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't help someone unless they realize they have a problem. I'm sorry to hear your friend hasn't realized you have her best interest in mind when you try to help. Good Luck!
2007-03-24 20:38:15 · answer #3 · answered by Caesar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get her family in this now!,she could end up in a hospital,and you need to make sure he is never around her.
2007-03-24 20:26:17 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might want to watch her closley. shes losing too much. maybe she has an eating disorder losing that much so soon.
2007-03-24 20:24:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋