I feel really pathetic but theres this guy whos really cute. I see him all the time we have the same PE period but different teachers. He's a sophmore and I'm a freshman. I'm super shy, really SHY. I have no clue how to approach him at all but I really like him. I feel so stupid but I wanna talk to him. I don't know what to do. After PE we both go the same way up these stairs I've contemplated droping my phone or somthing while hes behind me, but it seems to stupid, or I'm afraid it will break, or someone will snatch it up and take off which would suck. What do I do, I'm so freakin frustrated.
2007-03-24 13:00:38 · 17 answers · asked by uuummmkk_is_my_mom 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first of all put your cell in a purse and drop something like a book right at his feet but dont make it look like ur throwing it there...... second of all pretend to bump in to him when there are lots of ppl so itl seem like some one pushed u then he will notice you but dont sit there and say um um um um um um then hed think u r a freak
2007-03-24 13:06:50 · answer #1 · answered by luba l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my gosh! I'm pretty much in the same situation. I am a freshman who likes a sophomore who has the same PE period as me. The only difference is that he is also in my spanish class, and I SIT NEXT TO HIM. That is the sad part for me. I see him all the time, and I think he likes me, since we happen to make eye contact a lot. :)
But anyways. My advice is first to talk about something small, like "Do you like this school? I do/do not like it. I'm a freshman." Or "How long does it take to see your consuler?" I guess something small at first. Now if only I could take my own advice....
2007-03-24 13:08:23 · answer #2 · answered by TheOtherSideOfTheMirror 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
alrighty I have gone through the same thing...
the idea you had about droping your cell phone was good But you should choice to drop someting else such as a pencil or pen or something small that it won't break but ofcourse something big enough so that he will notice and if He is behind you He will see it pick it up for you. I think that will work. You and him might get closer from there..atleast start talking. Maybe that will work
2007-03-24 13:06:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey! I know exactly what you mean about being VERY shy. I'm the same way. No, I would'nt drop your phone to get his attention. I would just go p to him and say hi and go from there, or coment on his shirt. Maybe bring up a movie, maybe he'll like it too. Just remember, your just saying hi. It's just a simple thing. Dont feel emmberased, just be yourself. Thats the key. If you want, you can e-mail me 4 more questions about this. For now, good luck!
2007-03-24 13:09:50 · answer #4 · answered by Ana Semphrey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have noticed him and you have made eye contact a time or 2 you know he noticed you too, so just walk beside him and say you feel like you are wasting time by not getting to know him, and was wondering if he might be feeling the same way.
2007-03-24 13:11:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, this has sort of happened to me, but with the girl im with right now. SHe was also shy. We were in Science, and she sort of came at me, really impulsive like. I advise you not to do that. Just be cool. Start of as a freind he can rely on, then reveal that you like him. Guys are sometimes afraid of commitment, so youve got to take it slow.
2007-03-24 13:05:36 · answer #6 · answered by Johnathan H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-20 09:39:16 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just try to say "Hi" and see if he starts a conversetion or something. But honastly I don't know if that will work because I've always been to shy to try it with the girls I think look cute. lol But it might work if your braver then me. I think that that is the best way to go. Good luck ^-^
2007-03-24 13:06:10 · answer #8 · answered by Fayt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do something to get his attention, and have him talk to you. Depending on what you guys do at P.E (if it's even together) throw a basketball his way (accidentally) or Sneeze while he's walking by. Chances are he should say bless you. Little by little, these small things will get you to start talking.
2007-03-24 13:04:02 · answer #9 · answered by Adrian G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry you don't have to approach him just let him know you like him. Smile at him when your eyes meet. The other solution is having a friend talking for you.
2007-03-24 13:05:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋