Well i'm 16 and this guy is like in his late thirties and i seriously think hes coming onto me(i hope your gonna prove me wrong). This guy is like really evil to everyone and shouts at people for walking past his room (seriously) but he treats me so differently. When i first met him he'd just taken a photo of me and came up saying what a great picture it was and how great i looked, first i thought ok friendly guy, creepy, but ok. for the months after he kept staring and giving eye contact in the halls then i had to go into his room for something with another member of staff who i was helping, it turned out he needing something doing and he said 'fancy a job mary' and winked (SOMEBODY EXPLAIN WHAT THAT MEANT). i refused. then he went back to staring and then one day he came up to me and started going on about how i've seen his nice side and how nice he is to me. after that a member of staff who was presnt said hes only nice to me. ewww. so am i reading to much into things or not?
2007-03-24 12:40:05 · 5 answers · asked by Mary L 1 in Education & Reference ➔ Other - Education
What this guy is doing IS creepy. What is he doing taking a photo of you without your permission? This is what pedophiles do.
Why the hell is he staring at you and the whole "fancy a job" is just way inappropriate.
I wish i knew what school you went to so i could report this myself. You should tell a teacher at your school that you feel a bit "funny" about this. They then have a duty of care to report it. You should also tell your parents who can inform the principal. You do need to do something. If you think it is inappropriate, then it probably is.
If you don't do something, just think about the next girl he does this to that might think it's ok to do something with him. You don;t want to be feeling uncomfortable in your own school, so tell someone sooner rather than later.
This guy needs help.
2007-03-24 13:40:17 · answer #1 · answered by votehowardout 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The interesting thing with your story is that if you really didn't care about the guy you wouldn't be writing this, so some part of you is flattered that you think he is hitting on you, or you are considering taking him up on what you think is an offer.
If you really dislike his attentions, the next time he starts with you, ask him if he would like to meet your mother and father? That should turn the flame down under his tea kettle.
2007-03-24 19:50:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds strange to me ~~~ I would do just what you are doing ~~~ stay away from him, if you must get near him have another staff member or student with you.
Good Luck ~~~ that's a tough one.
2007-03-24 19:56:09 · answer #3 · answered by scottyusa1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have a school counselor? Go talk to him or her about this guy.
2007-03-24 19:48:24 · answer #4 · answered by sci55 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eye contact...he is definitely hitting on you
2007-03-24 20:59:56 · answer #5 · answered by DA BEAST!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋