i got shut down by this girl i like, so to get over her i have to meet new girls. wheres the best place to meet new girls and how do i approach them? at work theres alot of cute girls, but i dont really get a lot of time to interact with them cause its busy as hell, and would it be wrong to ask out a coworker?
im fairly confident and bold and getting over my shyness
2007-03-24 12:22:59 · 14 answers · asked by thesunman 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont really like the parties with all the preps cause those are the only parties at my school, i hate them everyone is so fake.
and i work at steak and shake so its not like an executive office
2007-03-24 12:30:39 · update #1
of course it's ok to go out with a coworker...go up with the one you're attracted to the most...say something like...hey i see you around very often...my name is *your name*...it's nice to meet you...then you guys get into a conversation and so on...then after a few days you go up to her and say...hey i was wondering maybe if I could take you out to dinner tonight? (they always want men to get to the point and be direct..and not to play around and stuff)
other places would be parties clubs or places like those
2007-03-24 12:28:35 · answer #1 · answered by zorro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel like you have to meet new girls just to get over the one who you liked but she did not reciprocate the feeling.
If you want to meet some new girls because you want to date, then do it for yourself, and not because of what happened with someone else.
Whenever and wherever you meet girls, make sure you are a gentleman and treat them with respect. Most girls are tired of the guys who act like jerks or just want to get into their pants so if you are a gentleman and treat the respectfully, you will be a breath of fresh air to them.
It takes a certain level of sophistication to be a real gentleman and a real man at the same time. Girls usually like a guy who knows where he is going in life, has ambition and goals, and knows how to treat a lady like a lady.
Lastly, dating coworkers can be tricky. If it does not work out with you and a coworker, things can get nasty unless you two are mature enough to deal with things in a respectful adult manner.
If you do decide to date a coworker, you might want to start off as friends. Ask one out to the movies or lunch. Try to figure out which one you might be more compatible with first before you decide which one to ask out. Don't ask her out in front of everyone else because she may feel embarrassed.
2007-03-24 12:39:19 · answer #2 · answered by Seldom Seen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to meet new girls, the best place is the maternity ward. If you want to meet different girls, get a social life that is full of as many people around your age as possible, hang out, meet, talk, meet, talk, party, meet, talk.
Eventually, you'll meet someone you like. Don't stop, completely, just because you've met someone! Try to meet the one out of many, not the one and only!
2007-03-24 12:30:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, there's allot of places to meet girls.
But, to meet a girl, you have to get to know her first, because, if a girl wants to go out with you, and you don't think she's your type, then you will think you've made the wrong mistake. That's the best way to approach them. Well, some people and Boss's think it's wrong to go out with co-workers, but I don't think it's wrong. They can't tell you who or not to date, it's your decision not theirs. And they think that the relationship is gonna interfere with work, it doesn't have to. Y'all can do it outside of work. You want to date the co-workers at your job, wait until your not working, go over to their house, or ask them out on a date, so you can have time to ask them, instead of work, because you have to get your work done.
I hoped I answered your question
Good Luck!
2007-03-24 12:46:11 · answer #4 · answered by TempoBronze124 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If theres a girl you like, maybe you should suggest that a bunch of people go out after work one night. that way you can talk to her more one on one, and it wont freak her out too much maybe than if you asked her out by herself.
I also think that you find people when you're not looking. :) so relax and go with the flow :)
2007-03-24 12:27:00 · answer #5 · answered by dancerchickchic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way to meat a girl is to have a myspace and go to parties with lots of girl.
2007-03-24 12:26:59 · answer #6 · answered by 9jagirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should comment a coworker everyday, be like "hey i love your outfit today" and then later on you just keep on building it up, narrowing it down by saying new things and then later on ask her for her name and so. i realy don't know lol, i'm kinda dumb when it comes to dating stuff, but yeah, hope i helped.
and in order to get a girl, you have to accept being rejected.
just like, in order to make money, you got to spend money.
you just got to accept being rejected, one day you wont.
it's better to try and have a 50 percent chance of getting a girl then not try at all and don't get a girl at all.
2007-03-24 12:27:22 · answer #7 · answered by LD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hit the Mail!
2007-03-24 12:25:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best place to meat girls is in back alleys behind strip malls
2007-03-24 12:26:44 · answer #9 · answered by DrWalrus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it wouldn't be wrong to ask a coworker out... if you like her, go ahead!! whatever you do DONT try to find girls on myspace... maybe at your school...?
2007-03-24 12:26:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋