can i tell her best friend?

Question

i just decided to leave the girl i like because.. i know there are too many problems ahead of us(im not using that as excuse), and eventually, we'll have to leave each other.. now i know she's sad and she wont want to talk to me.. can i tell her best friend what's going on and tell her to cheer her up?

basically i still like her.. but leave her is needed.. i cant find other ways to solve this.. =(

oh by the way, i told the girl already.. but im thinking if i should ask her best friend to cheer her up.. cuz i donno if she'll be too down. =\

Answer 1

i think if you tell her best friend and she finds out you told her best friend before you told her she might get a bit upset but i think she would preffer 2 hear it from you 1st and then her best friend can be there 2 comfort her. at the end of the day your putting her 1st well done =] she will thank you in the long run x

Answer 2

Yes, her best friend can be a comfort to her. Let her know, through her best friend, that you are doing this for her own good. She may not be able to see that now, but she will thank you in the long run. You love her enough to not let her get hurt any more - good for you!

Answer 3

She is hurt, let it settle... if you know that it will be bad in the future then talking to her could make it harder to let her go again... tell her the resons and tell her that you like her but its better that way. im sure she'll understand if she likes you. Bon chance

Answer 4

telling her best friend is just being cowardly! she will understand much better if u tell her to her face and explain why u have to break up with her! make it sweet! be nice about it!

Answer 5

No do not tell her friend, keep it between the two of you.