Okay i useto go wit thiz boi and i had really liked him and he waz faithful too. i messed up cuz i cheatd on him thiz waz like in november 2006 he had dumped me now 2007 we both like eachother and i had moved on and found somebody else that i love and i just need help wat should i do cuz i still have feelins for him?
2007-03-24 12:09:26 · 13 answers · asked by Aileen b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you love this new guy, forget about the other one. He will always remember what you did, and may throw it back in your face later. Do you wanna risk what you have with this new guy for that?
2007-03-24 12:13:17 · answer #1 · answered by Axel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's always best to be honest in a relationship, and faithful. Take it slow with this new guy and see how things develop. Don't rush yourself. It seems that in the first relationship something wasn't quite right or else you may not have strayed in the first place. I hope this helped, good luck.
2007-03-24 19:15:13 · answer #2 · answered by mlrgemini 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey.
Well, if you really cared for and liked him, you shouldn't have gone off and cheated on him. He probably thought that you didn't have feelings for him, and you probably hurt his feelings because he liked and cared about you. That's not how you go through relationships. If you like somebody and you are in a relationship right now, you should stick with it, not going with someone else. If you haven't cheated on him, y'all would still have gone out with each other, and you wouldn't feel stressed about it. Now, I hope you don't do the same mistake with your next boyfriend.
I hoped you go through with my advice.
Good Luck!
2007-03-24 19:25:06 · answer #3 · answered by TempoBronze124 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well from someone who knows i will tell you straight up how to take of the problem stay away from them for a couple of days and sit and get a piece of paper with the top of the page put their names , then on the side put like places you went with them and like who is funny and when you are done who has the most go with him or do you want to hear it straight up go with what your heart tells you the heart never lies.
2007-03-24 19:16:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its ok to have feelings for another guy but if you're already in a relationship dont just break it off with the other guy cause you never know if you guys were reaally meant to be just try to be friends with the old boyfriend.
2007-03-24 19:14:01 · answer #5 · answered by shay!%**shay!%* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who do you like more? And you need to fully get over one guy to be with the other because it's not fair to them that you secretly like someone else.
2007-03-24 19:13:44 · answer #6 · answered by n1ke_g1rl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you said you moved on and that you met someone else and that youre inlove....hmmm?to me i dont think youre "inlove" with this new boy.cause if you were you wouldnt still have feelins for this other dude.i think youre confused and youre still too young to know what "love" is.
2007-03-24 19:19:45 · answer #7 · answered by Itsjustme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first learn to spell. then discuss youre feelings with both the guys and see who seems like they really and truly love you. you will know who is right for you then.
2007-03-24 19:16:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you said that you love this new guy but yet you are still havin feelings for him? if he does like you i say you go after him. ask him for a second chance and if he really does like you then he would say yes also no more cheatingg gotit? =]
2007-03-24 19:13:03 · answer #9 · answered by ms.problemsolver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can still be friends with him. if you want more with him then you will have to talk to your new boyfriend. you have to figure out what and who you want. then go for it. it is all about making you happy. but you have to be honest with both of them.
2007-03-24 19:14:28 · answer #10 · answered by msblueeyes272002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋