I've been screwed over too many times. the guys that I like always turn out to be jerks or a$$ holes. every time i get over one a new one comes along, and i just dont know what to do anymore. I cant find a decent guy anywhere. I'm just to confused, what can i do?
2007-03-24 11:48:17 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
stop wanting to like guys for a while...i dunno sorry ♥
2007-03-24 11:50:57 · answer #1 · answered by aLl I WaNtEd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, there are a**holes, jerks, and bit*hes and sluts and so forth. But there are good guys and females too. Maybe you are looking for guys at wrong places, I suggest learn more about yourself and see where your interests are and look for guys in those areas. Don't forget to ask many questions without being too direct to guys you talk to like discussing a topic that guys can relate to, not women issues, which usually will expose their true colors and look for visual obvious signs like a tan line on marriage finger and so forth. You could check out Tyra Banks show web site where she does talk about relationships and how to tell if he is honest with you. Good luck finding the non-a**hole guy.
2007-03-24 12:04:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys aren't mature until thier 20's. however, there is some guys who actually want to have a committed relationship. if you become the one who's in control with the relationship,then guys will fall head over heels. but you have to give guys thier space. if you're there to talk and console him then it's a done deal. always be funny and quote guy movies. but remember look for a guy who you know is dependable..... not just a stud or jock. trust me the jocks and jerks in the long run don't work. Good Luck!
2007-03-24 11:59:15 · answer #3 · answered by charmz101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember sitting in class, and always looking at those guys that you thought were soo hot....completly passing by the smart ones, the "not so good looking" ones...Thats where you went wrong. Girls/Women these days only ever want the Rebels, the "bad-boys"....because they are looking for fun and entertainment. But if your really looking for a guy to treat you right, its the ones that you completely looked passed before..
Give a guy a chance that you would never have given a chance before. Of course you have to have SOME kind of physical attration to him....Those are the guys that will treat you the best. They have the best careers, and you will do best with them.
2007-03-24 11:54:40 · answer #4 · answered by LostInTheCrowd 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need a system.
Make a list with 2 columns.
1. Qualities that are mandatory
2. Qualities that is optional but not an absolute. This list can be as trivial as you want.
When you meet someone stick to the list that is mandatory regardless of how awesome he may appear.
Once you now what you want it becomes easier and you would be surprised how you start meeting people more suitable for you.
2007-03-24 11:58:12 · answer #5 · answered by Tricia C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like youre in school. Remember you dont have to get invollved so early. you might enjoy being single for a while. You know to be confident to know that you have many options. You know the best relationships don't even seem to be possibel, but eventually they end up to be perfect. So I say enjoy being single and maybe someone you never thought possible to be a good guy may appear out of nowhwere.
2007-03-24 11:55:53 · answer #6 · answered by Wisdom=Magenta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you do, don't jump right into bed with the next one. Get to know each other. A decent guy won't hit you or control you. He'll be gentle and kind, and stay with you even tho you're not sleeping with him. Believe me, there are a lot of good guys out there. You have to be nice and kind in return.
2007-03-24 11:54:38 · answer #7 · answered by LadyLynn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can join the club. Keep in mind that you "teach" people how to treat you by the way that you present or speak about yourself. Step back for a moment, look inside and ask yourself "Why do people think they can treat me like this"?
You will be suprised to find that alot of times it's because you let them. Value yourself and others will have no choice but to treat you with the same respect. You deserve nothing less and you are worth it.
2007-03-24 11:53:54 · answer #8 · answered by Chillyboy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
always go for the shy guy.he might be shy at first but usally he'll open up. And you'll find things in common with yourself. Look for guys in the oddest places because guys an usally nice guys can be spotted anywhere, they might not be good looking or a little overweight,but they will treat you right
2007-03-24 11:56:28 · answer #9 · answered by MICHAEL P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep looking. I can imagine that it must be hard. Sometimes the only way to find the right person out there is too take risks. And with risks, come pain. But there are nice, respectful guys out there. I am one of them.
2007-03-24 11:52:28 · answer #10 · answered by TheSilverBeetles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Morgan you just haven't met the right guy. Instead of trying to find someone take some time off from meeting guys. And focus on hobbies or something that makes you happy and let love come to you.
If you want to chat to a someone contact me.. we can chat and get to know each other. I'm a pretty nice guy once you get to know me.
2007-03-24 11:55:05 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋