any good exuse's on what to tell ower parents and where to go to have it? anything please thank you
2007-03-24 11:47:17 · 38 answers · asked by Paul 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go to a motel...tell your parents that your staying at a freinds house and she can tell her parents she's staying at a freinds house. then just hope they don't call. or you can have your freinds three way the call and they can say here is you son/daughter and then they can talk to you...could work
2007-03-24 11:50:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Ummm... your parents are apparently clued in. Do you think it's just a coincidence you are never alone? How old are you? If you are living at home, I say wait until you can get away LEGALLY for the weekend and make it very special. Do not lie for sex. Do not sneak for sex. I'm not saying you have to tell your parents, but it will feel very cheap if it is done this way. Go camping with a group - then set your tent far enough away (out of ear shot) so you can have some privacy. Do what you want.
2007-03-24 11:51:13 · answer #2 · answered by lucki female 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? do you think that she is the one you'll spend the rest of your life with? Because if not, then why would you get emotionally and physically attached to someone who might leave you in 2 weeks...
and then why would you have to hide it from your parents? is it because you know they would be mad? and disappointed in you? if its something good for you to do then they would let you and be happy for you. Parents know what is best, so don't try to find a way to have sex and go against your parents wishes...
in the long run it won't help either of you and you never know what could happen! your parents could find out, she could become pregnant ,ect...
its seriously a stupid idea and I hope you come back to reality and see how ridiculous it is to pretend to be old and mature and do like grown ups.
its not because everyone does it that it makes it right or good for you. I'm sorry you've decided to hurt yourself and her. that's what they call love nowadays... good luck
2007-03-24 11:54:10 · answer #3 · answered by Jakie22 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you haven't been alone then its not suppose to happen yet.And if your parents are the ones that are always around then I know it's not suppose to happen yet.
And take it from a girl- we ALWAYS remember our 1st time.So plz no matter how bad you want it don't cheapen it for her sake. And when you are suppose to be able to the time will show itself.Just make sure that you both protect yourselves.And have fun.
2007-03-24 11:56:02 · answer #4 · answered by bjustnape 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
for get it - jsut start getting undressed in teh middle of the living - prime time tv - fmilay time is the best time - everyone is so busy watching the tube they probably will not even notice you and the gf having sex rght there in the middle of the livingrrom.
just remember to practive safe sex and throw away your condum wrapper when you are done - they might find the wrapper and figure out what you've been up to.
2007-03-24 11:52:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
your first time is suppose to be special dont rush it. but if you are both really ready and your not going to regret it then I would have to say get a room. if your not old enough to do that then wait until you guys can be alone. I would never have sex in my parents house ---couldnt do it
2007-03-24 11:52:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Every time something is in the way think about what you are doing. Is this the right time? Do you love her? Do you know her enough to sleep with her? If you are not sure it could be a sign that it's not time
2007-03-24 11:54:20 · answer #7 · answered by Chistopher A 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have it in the future. I am not trying to be a buzz kill here, but the mere fact that you can't figure out on your own, when and where to have sex, is well, dicouraging and I am afraid a big sign that maybe perhaps, you and your girlfriend are in no position to have this kind of relationship just yet. But, if you must, and I am sure you think you will die if you don't please please please be safe. And by safe, I dont mean remember to lock the door, but to use protection!
2007-03-24 11:52:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well tell them you're going to a little party but instead skip the party and go to a motel or go outside far away and do it aoutside in the woods or something like that!
2007-03-24 11:50:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well if your parents work then its great once they are out of the house you could invite her round. If they are usually home then you could convince them to go shopping and say you must stay at home because you have home work or something like that. If thats not an option you could always try your friends houses or outdoors in a private place although thats risky
2007-03-24 11:50:59 · answer #10 · answered by E.S 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
a park is a great place to have it. one of those tubes that you crawl through or the top of an enclosed slide. both are good places. go at night though. or go to a friends house whose parents are a little more liberal. use protection though:) a good excuse is to tell your parents that you are studying at someones house. instead of that meet up at the park and go at it. lol
2007-03-24 11:54:29 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋