she keeps calling my dad up for everything, since they seperated and he runs off when ever shes there.thier gettin a divorce butt wot should i do bout my mum?
2007-03-24 11:46:29 · 13 answers · asked by joseph b 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
there is not a great deal you can do,
except to support Mum ,
while she is going through this trauma .
Be as loving and as kind , as you can.
help her with day to day things, around the house .
and tell her you love her, come what may .
being in the middle of a divorce is hell , for you too ,
But it will sort itself out eventually .
Be strong for your Mum.
she really needs you just now .
All the best
>^,,^<
2007-03-24 12:02:56 · answer #1 · answered by sweet-cookie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is frightened of a life without your Dad. How long was they together? I'm guessing she is so used to having a man around, she doesn't know how to deal with being single again.
All you can do is give her your full support. Be there for her when she needs a shoulder to cry on, or just some company.
This will take time to get better, so be patient.
2007-03-24 22:59:59 · answer #2 · answered by LauraMarie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me as though your Mum is still finding the separation form your Dad very difficult. She will need lots of support from family and friends and particularly, I suspect, from you. Just be there for her, when you can and reassure her that everything will work out for the best - eventually!
2007-03-24 11:59:03 · answer #3 · answered by Susan F 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, I bet you feel forgotten. Your Mum's not crazy, her life (and yours ) has fallen apart. You can't do anything it's not and can never be, your responsibility to look after your Mum. Is there any one you can turn to? A teacher , a friend's parent or Grand parents. (though family members may find it hard to be neutral) i can only imagine what you are going through,God Bless and Good luck.
2007-03-24 12:04:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep on loving her and possibly divert her attention to other things and other people. your dad needs some space just now i think but your mum seems to need his attention. if you and your mum could do more things together you can help each other focus on the future and not the past. remember that this will get easier for you too and you are doing your parents proud just by wanted them to be happy. some kids just think about themselves. well done you!
2007-03-24 11:58:54 · answer #5 · answered by sabrina b 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know moms/mums are special but, she needs to do things for herself now. She needs help finding her independence. A woman shouldn't rely on a man for everything anymore. Then we have to think about when she does find her independence from your dad, she'll be calling you all the time.
2007-03-24 11:58:56 · answer #6 · answered by Spring loaded horsie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
shes an adult so shes going to do what she wants too...but just tell her how you feel then just stand by what ever she ends up doing...she just more than likely really needs you right now...be that kid use does the same for their parents as you would like them to do for you
2007-03-24 12:00:23 · answer #7 · answered by misque77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you can do is be there for your mam its obvious she is taking getting a divorce hard & does not want one.
2007-03-27 03:11:17 · answer #8 · answered by Ollie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mom is still not over being separated and probably still holds your father near and dear to her heart. Just give her time to adjust to being without him.
2007-03-24 11:50:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she still needs him. Why are they getting separated in the first place
2007-03-24 11:50:04 · answer #10 · answered by Terminator 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋