Ok, about a year ago, my ex-girl left me because she said she was moving far away, and so she left. One day she calls, then we decide to have a long distance relationship. She would call every now and then, but not that much. 5 months later she comes back. I was very angry at her for not calling, but she played it off by trying to kiss me and talk to me again, and so I said I didn't want to go with her anymore. Then I start talking to her friend (Note:I didn't know back then that it's not right to go with your X's best friend). The relationship with me & her friend was short, but then me and my X would talk to eachother every now and then. Just a couple of weeks ago, I started talking to her again. Then as soon as I was going to try to go with her again, she hates me because all of a sudden she remembers that I went out with her friend, LAST YEAR. I've tried saying sorry, but she still hates me. What can I do? My mom tells me there's nothing I can do. Please tell me in aspecific answer
2007-03-24 11:45:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sometimes theres no answers. You can't make anybodys decisions for them so time can only tell; just don't hate back and just let the issue drop with her, maybe she'll eventually drop it too and be your friend.
2007-03-24 11:50:15 · answer #1 · answered by The Captain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I disagree with the first answer. Why? Because your ex-girlfriend left the area. You had every right to go out with another person. Even IF that person was her best friend. I normally wouldn't give this answer as I am a woman, and have had a guy pull just this stunt. BUT, I had NOT left the area.
The best thing for you to do is move on. I really don't like the sounds of your ex. You can do better.
2007-03-24 18:54:15 · answer #2 · answered by Barry 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say but yeah when u go out with some one elses best friend it really hurts.. there is nothing u can do because if in the future u guys get back together she will always throw it at ur face that u when out with her ex best fried, i would recommed to move on because i know u might feel that she was the one but trully there is that one special girl waiting for u. good luck
2007-03-24 18:52:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't hate you and you can get her back! don't beg for this woman! Tell her that you are no longer trying to get hr back. Act as though you are over her and just be her friend. Be a good and real friend. Don't flirt, just be a friend and trust me that girl will fall back like never before. I've seen this work!
2007-03-24 18:51:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be angry too if u went out with my best friend but i would definately after a year. all you can do is sit it out and wait for her to get over it or you get over her. if she is hanging onto what you did that long ago, she is not worth it anyways. you can probably do better. all i can tell you is dont do anything else to make her mad and try to make it up to her somehow.
2007-03-24 18:56:43 · answer #5 · answered by guard_bug 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does your x's friend care if you go out with her again?
cause if she does then there is nothing you can do if they are true friends but if she doesn't then you might have a shot but yoiu have to talk to both of them
2007-03-24 18:52:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mother`s right. once you`ve scorn a woman it takes a lot to get her back. Move on!
2007-03-24 18:49:48 · answer #7 · answered by peridot6662002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two are playing too many games. I see no future in this relationship..
2007-03-24 18:50:06 · answer #8 · answered by LadyLynn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've done mostly what you can, just try to prove your feelings for her
2007-03-24 18:50:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wELL,ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS WAIT AND HOPE FOR THE BEST. AAND I F THAT DOESNT WORK, MOVE ON, IF SHE IS MEANT FOR YOU, YALL WILL BE TOGETHER SOONER OR LATER
2007-03-24 18:51:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋