I need to know how to get the girl i totally and completley love to love me back. I told her i liked her a while back, but then our line of communication broke down ( we pretty much stopped talking) help me at least start talking to her again.
2007-03-24 11:42:07 · 24 answers · asked by logan s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
try calling her and seeing hows shes doing... maybe go to a movie or dinner to "catch up"
2007-03-24 11:44:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go up to her and say word for word, "how do i get the girl i love? I need to know how to get the girl i totally and completley love to love me back. I told her i liked her a while back, but then our line of communication broke down ( we pretty much stopped talking) help me at least start talking to her again. THIS GIRL IS YOU BABY!!!"
2007-03-24 18:45:03 · answer #2 · answered by Gay R 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all, you really can't /make/ someone love/like you.
Okay, with that out of the way, what you have to do is start talking to her. Gradually. Talk to her a little one day, then, more the next, ect. Next, you could maybe invite her to a party or something (to remind her about how you feel). Then, you tell her upfront.
After that, you hope she returns the feeling. If not, you have to move on.
The most important thing you can do, though, is to be yourself. Don't chage yourself just for her. (I know you've probably heard this a million times but it's important that you remember it.)
Good luck!
2007-03-24 18:50:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself,ask her out for lunch/dinner or so.
I believe you should also do a activity together after that.
Take her to (shoot pool,go bowling etc.)
If you're nervous and shy you'll forget it easily,you don't really need to carry a long conversation while doing this.
It is a icebreaker,because you'll have fun while getting to know each other,rather than just sitting down face to face.
You may find it hard to pick subjects and stuff if you're shy.
There is no guarantie,but I believe that once you can make a woman/girl or boy/man smile/laugh,you've got her/him your way.
The rest is up to you,but remember ALWAYS
be yourself,be a GENTLEMAN,open the cardoor/any doors,pull her chair out etc.
You'll find the both of you having a great time!
Good Luck!
2007-03-24 18:55:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This exact thing happened with my husband and me right after high school. Just make sure you always know how to get in touch with her, and write or call or email occasionally. When you get the chance to see her in person, ask her to do something casual - lunch or coffee or something. Let her know that you like her, but don't pressure her. If she doesn't respond immediately, drop it and give it some more time. My husband did this for eight years with me before we finally started dating, and now we've been married for four years. Just stick with it, and sooner or later she will realize that you're not just trying to get her in bed, and she'll give you a chance.
2007-03-24 18:46:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't force someone to love you. And if you could, it wouldn't be true love.
You just have to wait for communication to come back, and if it does than it is meant to be. Check phonebooks, email her, etc. But don't stalk her. And don't make her your number one priority.
You have to let her fall in love with who she wants too. She may already be in love with you as well, but you didn't clarify whether or not she said she liked you back as well.
Best of luck to you though! Remember, love is something to live for, but not necessarily the only thing to live for.
2007-03-24 18:47:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if there is nothing to talk about dont try to make something up , thats the worst thing when 2 people dont have anything to talk about so they are looking for something to say , just get over it , and dont try to get closer to her without any reason to do so ( other than that u love her ) cuz she'll notice and u'll look redicilous , and in the future when u remember this u'll say " oh man , i was a jerk " and trust me thats not the best thing to remember bout urself
2007-03-24 18:48:28 · answer #7 · answered by kkk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take small steps to rebuild that communication. Speak to her when you see her. Send an e-mail or text message. Take small steps and then gradually build on it. You may have scared her. What was her response when you told her how you felt?
2007-03-24 18:46:15 · answer #8 · answered by kaycee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well look once you said to her that you like her and she likes you back then you should ve appraoch her ,but you didn't that's why she stopped talking to you.
call her and tell her you would like to talk to her it's very important. where can we meet if she tells you that she don't know. invite her to a restaurant, and then tell her that you are very sorry about everything, and you like her but you didn't know a best way to show her your true feelings. and i missed you and i missed being around you please give me a second chance i wanna make it up to you that's why i invited you in that restaurant just to talk to you and listen to your pretty voice again) and now you can finish your conversations with her and go on and on.
2007-03-24 19:01:40 · answer #9 · answered by marcel m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call her and say: "It's been a while! Just thought I'd call and say hello. How are you doing?" And let the conversation continue from there....
Then ask her if she wants to catch up over coffee sometime.
2007-03-24 18:46:14 · answer #10 · answered by rockinfreakapotamus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she doesn't totally love you but she has strong feeling for you. May be you should take it slow and she'll probably come around.
2007-03-24 18:46:23 · answer #11 · answered by sexisha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋