Does the size of a woman turn you off????
let me explain:
you have a girlfriend she is not fat but she is not super skinny/skinny, her jeans size are an 14 do you dump her because of what your boyz say or love her the way she is. Like when it comes down to it she is beuatiful but has a little fat but no that much and she still has a coca-cola shape!!!!
plz respond soon i need advice
2007-03-24 11:41:00 · 14 answers · asked by lashawn ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My father had a great saying, that I have always tried to live by. "You go to bed with the body, BUT you wake up to the personality." When I first heard it, I thought he was crazy, but learned what he meant. YOU have to get along with the person, and be able to see the other person for WHO she IS....otherwise, it is like going to bed with a piece of meat. And if someone is too shallow to try and get to know the other person, then why waste your time. Sex and looks are not everything.....the body is always going to change. You don't look the same at age 18 and age 48 or age 88; so you have to find someone that doesn't care about the body, but the personality. And size 14 isn't large, it is all about how you see yourself and how you feel about yourself....and how you care/love yourself. You have to be able to care and love you for you before anyone else can love you, and if he cannot care and love you for who you are, then why are you wasting your time on a bum like him???
2007-03-24 11:56:49 · answer #1 · answered by lorencehill 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First...We guys weren't all formed in the same mold. Some guys do like skinny women. Some guys will go out of their way to find just the right full sized girl. Its all a matter of individual taste. Just remember that all guys aren't THAT guy.
Women come in all sorts of Beautiful sizes.....Your friend should know to hold herself with dignity and pride...She will find someone that thinks that she is beautiful just the way she is.
2007-03-24 11:51:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I figure that if a guy is already dating a slightly big girl, then he must have liked her from the beginning. Yeah, I think in every relationship that you might see someone thinner or more beautiful who comes along-but you don't date them because you are loyal and loving to your boyfriend/girlfriend. For me, a little bit of weight is not bad. Too much is bad, and too little is equally bad. But in the end, for anyone to love you, you need to love yourself first.
2007-03-24 11:49:50 · answer #3 · answered by TheSilverBeetles 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
depends are you otherwise a good person?
do you have a general good attitude?
are you happy and positive
playful, cheerful...or a nasty old b*tch who is mad a t the world becase you are a little fat?
most guys like a happy lady - young guys like a thin lady because they just want ot get laid and think that a thn lady means a tighter p8ssy. the secret is that slighty fat ladies have more cushion fo rthe pushing - and tend toe be much more well rounded - and not just in the hips.
a smart guy will choose the well rounded ladies.
2007-03-24 11:45:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Size 14 isn't fat! Just nice and curvy like I like it, and so do many other guys. I wouldn't dump her, I'd love her!
2007-03-24 12:20:44 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the girl. if the guy is in it only because of what his "homies think", then she doesn't need him. if the guy fell for her personality or something else, it shouldn't matter. everyone is interested in different things. it comes down to chemistry and personality.
2007-03-24 11:47:24 · answer #6 · answered by mike s 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I always thought it was how you worked it. If you can keep your man with what you got. all you got to do is keep doing it. But don't stop once your in the clear. there is nothing worse than that.
2007-03-24 11:49:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I love realistic women.. Wouldn't put me off in the slightest......
2007-03-24 11:46:34 · answer #8 · answered by Point 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if i fell in love with her thinner it woudn't change, but wouldn't look for a girl that size
2007-03-24 11:46:32 · answer #9 · answered by myddad 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, i hope they don't dump her cuz of that, that's terrible! who said chubby people aren't pretty anyway!
2007-03-24 11:45:59 · answer #10 · answered by rt1290 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋